2006-06-30 04:26:01 · 10 answers · asked by ahm5511 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ahm:
Hummmm. I ask you one question first, why don't you like her outfit? Does this happen often.
I ask because you can really hurt someone for a long, long time doing it without some careful thought. That is why I ask you why is this happening, why do you want her to change?
So, I will guess and go with a thought for you. Start off by hugging her, long and thoughtful. Then peek into her wardobe and pick something out, more appropriate, and very softly suggest you like this outfit because it brings out something in her; her eye colour, nice on her figure. From there if she gets angry, then she is sensitive. Leave it for awhile; don't argue, because she 'knows' that she needs some changes. Seriously, we females are really intuitive, and 'sense' right away if something is wrong.
Move slowly, thoughtfully; she will get the hint and perhaps change or ask you to help her out with ideas. We are wonderful, but we have our moments and if men treat us with kindness, well, you got it.
luv Ava
2006-06-30 04:39:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that depends on whether she has changed her makeup and dress style recently or not. If she is still doing it the same way as before you two were married then I think you should love her for her and not try to change her. However, if you decide to tell her, do it subtly and maybe give her the money to go and spend on new clothes and send her for a day at the spa where they will be able to give her tips on new makeup ideas. Either way, be very very careful with this... we women are super-sensitive and you might be stepping out of the pot and into the fire here.
2006-06-30 11:33:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is sensitive, (and most ladies are)... never say "I don't like what you are wearing", just go with the flow... (besides, she will be in something you like in 10 hours or so)... It could be damaging to her self esteem to say anything negative to her. Now, if she comes out and says "do I look okay?" It is okay for you to say, "Honey you look fine, but, I really get turned on when you wear the red dress instead..." (I'd change in a second if I heard my man say that!)
2006-06-30 11:35:01 · answer #3 · answered by ncstacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it good? Probably not.
I think you should let your wife dress they way she wants to dress (unless its totally inappropriate) But if you're telling her just cause YOU "don't like it" then back off. Let her express herself the way she wants to. You'll only make her feel insecure when she's around you. That's how it makes me feel when my boyfriend criticizes me about what I'm wearing :(
2006-06-30 11:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did she wear dresses like that and her make-up the same way when you met her if so she probably does it still because she thinks you like it but if it is something new just mention that you think she would look good with whatever style you think would be better for her and or you
2006-06-30 11:35:31 · answer #5 · answered by winter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you want to spend the night on the couch. Even if she asks you how she looks, believe me brother, there is no right answer.
2006-06-30 20:48:00 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe not such a good idea, and whatever you do, do not suggest she change her cooking habits.
2006-06-30 11:32:09 · answer #7 · answered by 3DDD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL. If ya wanna sleep on the couch it is.
2006-06-30 11:33:05 · answer #8 · answered by babygirl_k2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not always, my husband sometimes does this, but if i really like what i have on i don't change anyways.
2006-06-30 11:49:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it unless she's wearing like a jerk.it wll make her upset
2006-06-30 11:33:02 · answer #10 · answered by silver D.W.V.E mirror 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋