Do you ever cheat on your girlfriend/wife? Why do you do it? Do you cheat but still love her? Has your girlfriend/wife found out and forgiven you? Would you forgive her if she cheated???
Share your stories.
I'm just curious why men do it when they have a wonderful wife/girlfriend at home.
2006-06-30 04:23:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well if I say no your probably going to assume I am lying, but in truth I really have never cheated on a girlfriend. speculation- I think "people, not just men" cheat because they are bored with the relationship. I think that men cheat more because their are times when your wonderfull girlfriend just isnt up to it. I dont pretend to know why girls fake headaches and refuse to have sex for weeks at a time but it does happen. and then thier are other reasons why people cheat, Intoxication. Have you ever been so drunk that you had no Idea what you were doing. that happens everyday. especially with college aged men and women.
If I had a girllfriend that I loved and she cheated on me? I dont know if I would or would not forgive her. If I thought she wouldnt do it again and that she really wanted to be forgave then yes of course nobodys perfect. but if it was something that she had been doing alot, then hell no. its time to get over her and find someone who is worth your time.
2006-06-30 04:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by thmslln3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did about 20 years ago and twice. I was drunk, and that was no excuse. I was infactuated with this other chick and home life was kinda crappy at the time. And I don't really know if I would have forgiven her if she had done it to me. I doubt it. And yes, she did find out because I told her cause I couldnt live with the guilt. She was great and forgave me. That was the past and I dont do it any more nor will I do it again.
2006-06-30 04:28:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people give other people reason to cheat. When we are fair on ourselves and others then this will never happen. It can only really happen if one has selfishness in us. Mainly because one needs to find another find a place make the choce to do it and then pull down the pants and them do the act it actually a process that is at any time stopable if one stopped to think about it one would never do it.
2006-06-30 04:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by sarell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it has to do with the fact that men instinctively want to "spread their seed" Human beings are monogamous by choice, we "cheat" on our partners because we feel that we did not experience what else is out there yet.
Don't get me wrong, some guys do it for sport while others do it but still love their partner. And some guys don't do it at all. It all comes down to choice and curiosity.
2006-06-30 04:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by Sébastien 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only cheat on boardgames. I've NEVER cheated on a wife or girlfriend in my life and don't intend on starting. Sorry. It's just not in being.
This may sound like BS but c'mon ... the truth shall set you free.
2006-06-30 04:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loss in communication..either physical or emotional communication between husband and wife. Men cheats because they love the feeling of being in love. Remember the first time you went out with your love ones? or your first kiss? or first hug? That feeling dies down as months and years passby between couples and when another woman comes along that can gives the men the feeling of excitement or the feeling of being in love, then they cheat on their wives/gf.
2006-06-30 05:41:44 · answer #6 · answered by Maria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl and I cheat. Why? I love the way the other guy f****.
I truly love my boyfriend but we don't have sex no more cause he says our relationship has passed that already, but I want it all the time! And I found someone who is willing to give it to me whenever I want it
2006-06-30 04:29:20 · answer #7 · answered by L.A. Woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not attached at the moment so no I don't cheat, but if I was I wouldn't cheat and if she wanted to that would be her idea. If she needed that little extra to satisfy her sexual needs but still cared about me for me then so be it lol. I don't mind an open relationship with no strings
2006-06-30 04:27:30 · answer #8 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe and based on my experience that when a man truly find the woman he loves will no longer have the capacity to cheat. He may get attracted to thousand other women but his thoughts will always return to the one he truly loves. Sound very romantic and too good to be true? BELIEVE ME ... IT IS TRUE!
2006-06-30 04:36:21 · answer #9 · answered by Quest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think alot of them dont think before they do!! then they think but do the wrong thing any ways thinking they wont get caught maybe.curiosity kills the cat, and they never learn that!!a girl can forgive but she will never forget!!! the hurt is too strong!!oops sorry this is from a girls point of view, im not a guy!!
2006-06-30 04:27:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋