I'm a christian girl (from India) and i'm going out with a Hindu guy for the past 3 years. My parents new about this but now they don't even know that this relationship exists. they never liked and even threatened me to stay out of it. I can't and won't because I really love this person. How can I convince my parents that this guy is the right guy for me? When should I let them know about this? My parents are quite conservative and I'm sure they won't handle the situation in a calm way. Moreover i am not willing to elope with my boyfriend coz I love my parents just as much as I do to my boyfriend. What should I do?
2006-06-30 04:16:51 · 9 answers · asked by jjr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hi..dts gud havin a boy friend..i do have one..c,just handle the situation carefully...tell your parents first,and make them understand the depth in love u have for ur guy..it always takes some time for ur parents to agree...bt,still u wait and wait...jus dont run away with him...bcoz that most of the couples do these days whn their parents are not allowin...tell dm that you really cant live with out him....and the main part is,you must have satisfied all your parents expectations..........let them know love these days is not a big thing to worry about...it vil take time,wait to hold the hands of ur guy forever,gud luck..........
2006-06-30 04:28:19 · answer #1 · answered by bhasu 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know what will happen.
Both of you will probably be disowned! I don't have a solution for you if you aren't willing to elope and go it alone. But maybe your parents will not freak out. I would suggest that before you tell them you are in love with mr. X you should first let them know that you are still seeing him. Have you talked it over with your boyfriend? What does he want to do? good luck
2006-06-30 04:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by hilarywow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you respect your parents and your underage you need to be honest with them. Tell them. Sure they will be upset but they were once in love werent they? If your of age still tell them but also let them know that your old enough to make your own decisions. Sometimes parents think they are protecting us. Most times they are right and sometimes they are wrong about the situation. Follow your heart but HONESTY is the best answer.
2006-06-30 04:21:43 · answer #3 · answered by sweeetkisses2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We each inspect sex and the nature of "good" and "undesirable" relationships in yet in a unique way. you locate consensual sex with more desirable than one individual to be unacceptably repulsive - it is your opinion. Your moms and dads locate the open way of existence to be extra acceptable to their desires - this is their opinion. If the brazen nature of their habit is genuinely causing some sort of harm on your existence then that is perfect to talk it including your moms and dads. Granted, they're below no criminal responsibility to modify their lives to in structure your determination yet you would possibly want to talk with them about it in case you locate it that significant. little ones do not get to go back to a decision what type of love existence their moms and dads have. moms and dads do not ought to go back contained in the door on a each day foundation and go by a list of their baby's layout to substantiate that all habit is interior of proper bounds. they're grown united statesand they are entitled to flow by existence making as many good and undesirable judgements as they opt for and also you would possibly want to ought to verify out a fashion to address it. once you're an individual you've the duty of messing up your little ones lives yet until eventually then you will purely ought to attend your turn. possibly you may attempt to take a extra sensible and a lot less self dependent attitude to carry close-how why your moms and dads behave the way they do. have you ever considered the probability that you're incorrect? That your college counselor is only a sexually repressed hater? That your moms and dads are doing something this is healthful and organic? evaluate the probability that your moms and dads are not committing some terrible sin and they are purely human beings residing their lives.
2016-11-30 01:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on your age if you are over 18 they cant tell you what to do just tell them you are happy you love him theres nothing they can do and when the first baby is born they will come aroung nothing like a child to bring them back
2006-06-30 04:20:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to God in prayer for divine intervention.Good luck.
2006-06-30 04:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by omota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they dont like theres nothing that you can do about it. just keep loving this guy.
2006-06-30 04:20:12 · answer #7 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he proposed to you then tell them
2006-06-30 04:21:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can afford independence (financially and all), be independent first from your parents. Then, do as you please.
2006-06-30 04:19:26 · answer #9 · answered by Josh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋