iam trying to explain love to my 14 year girl......and the differnt between love and lust
2006-06-30 04:13:36 · 6 answers · asked by trouble 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hmm...love in our western culture is this "i love you as long as you promote MY survival and MY point of view, as soon as you do not promote MY survival and MY point of view, i will not love you anymore. Period. I know this rings cynical and goes against the usual romantic notions - but WHEN have you ever saw this not to be true in the long run? Want to test it? Try not promoting anothers point of view or survival for a minute and watch what results! Go to court and watch friends viciously suing each other, or think of the middle east and where we hear of people bombing thier brothers and neighbors.
Momma!!
Lust is all biology! zero conciousness, zero awareness, zero creativity, zero will, it is all just bells and whistles of the body going off!! It is sex, it is pretty close to coffee and smoking and all the other addictions.
2006-07-01 07:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by zigzagidiot 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay lust is just wanting mostly because you can't have it. For example your favorite celeb. People are like I love him/ her, but really lusting them because they look so good and can't have them. Love is real. When you share something between someone else. There's feelings there and you can't get enough of them or you think about them constantly. That not matter what you seem to talk to one another or just around each other in general.
2006-06-30 11:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by SouthernBelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is: Never having to say you are sorry and never feel like you are put in a compromising situation. Where you can comfortably say 'no' without having to go into details. Love is to appreciate the other finer things in life, to find enjoyment in the simpler things of life and yet being able to comprehend it's complexities.
2006-06-30 13:30:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am wondering about love and trying ask lots of people about what they believe about love, because i know it's different for everyone. I'm a teenager and love seems too vast to comprehend fully! I applaud you for helping your daughter understand.
2006-06-30 11:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by robin c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is where you like everything of the person. such as personalities, like doing thing with him as activies and more. lust is where you want his body.
2006-06-30 11:17:33 · answer #5 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well love is trust
2006-06-30 11:15:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋