2006-06-30 03:55:59 · 40 answers · asked by damien 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
You can repress your natural urges, but this could cause problems psychologically.
People are born gay or straight. You just have to accept the way you were born.
2006-06-30 04:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Pastafarian 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you train yourself to do anything? How do you stop smoking? How do you stop doing anything?
If you think you CAN stop being gay, go talk to someone about what made you this way.
If you think you CAN'T stop being gay, maybe it's a hormonal thing. If it's natural for you to be gay, then you will contribute to the world wonderfully as a gay person. God made you gay. If God made you gay, then you will do great things as the great person God made.
2006-06-30 04:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! You have received some seriously stupid answers. Sorry, but stupid is the best description. At some point in time since your birth, and since you found reason, whether you want to admit it or not, you made a choice. To reverse that choice is simple, if your really want to. No one, and I do mean no one, is ever or ever has been born gay. Homosexuality is a free-will choice, not a birth defect. Choose to be gay? Yes you did. Choose not to be gay? Yes you can.
2006-06-30 04:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by mellow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. I go to a theatre school where just about every male is gay. It's a though lifestyle but it's who they are and I love them all for it. First of all, you can't stop being gay and second of all, you shouldn't want to. You need to be who you are and if that means you're gay....so be it. Be proud of who you are and stop trying to be someone you're not.
2006-06-30 04:13:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
You can totally 'stop being gay'. It will be really hard but with the help of God and other former homosexuals turned Christians it is very possible. Their website is www.lovewonout.com. These are great people who have overcome thru Jesus. They have conferences and programs to help you. Hope this helps to start your journey.
2006-06-30 04:02:34 · answer #5 · answered by sweetartlady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever the hell said that being gay should be cured needs kicked in the damn head..... I mean you canteven if you hide it, it will always be there. People will notice if they pay attention and why would you want to stop being gay when it is obviously your choice and it is what you want. Do what makes you happy, screw everyone else...not literally lol.
2006-06-30 03:58:35 · answer #6 · answered by Joelyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to feel like wanting to stop. First you have to know your not gay. Act like your not gay. The rest should fall in place. Dont forget if you think you can do it than it shall be done. make sure youre changing cause you want to change not cause somone wants you to change. I love gay people...............But i'm not gay. i have many gay dudes as my friend for more talk My adress is crishellbrown@yahoo.com
2006-06-30 04:01:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being gay is not a fad or a fashion statement, you can't just turn the switch on and off. If you are, then just be you.If you don't be you you'll be lying to yourself and make life miserable for yourself too. Really there is nothing that can change your sexual affliction. . Don't dispair hun, love yourself and others will follow.
2006-06-30 04:00:49 · answer #8 · answered by gabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people think anything goes. But if your desire is to stop being gay, than something inside you is telling you it's wrong. People who don't believe in God say it's ok as long as you're happy. But I've never seen too many happy gays. In fact I had a couple gay friends who committed suicide and I've read that most gays struggle with depression because deep down inside, they are not truly happy with their lifestyle. It starts out fun but then the depression catches up with you.
The best way, is to give your heart to Christ. People who have been set free from the bondage of homosexuality, they have gotten married to women and have children.
When you read about it, every article about one who USE to be gay and change to straight ... they all bring up "God". They have pray," Lord, if you don't want me gay, take these feelings away from me. But if so, then don't."
They will tell you that He is the answer. His desire is for you to be happy and comfortable with yourself. And anyone who tells you that it's impossible for a gay to turn straight is wrong!
Go read about it for yourself! (If you really want to be free from it) http://www.fictionpress.com/read.php?storyid=1849680
2006-06-30 04:55:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you can stop being gay anymore than you can stop being straight
2006-06-30 03:58:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋