I'm choosing not to have sex unill I'm either 18+ or married to my wife. I want my first time to be passionate and stuff not all sexual and stuff. Is this a good/wise or dumb decision?
2006-06-30 03:28:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
it is all up to you......
2006-06-30 03:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by cookies_n_cream0218 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is an extremely wise decition and I would be a hypocrite to call you dumb for that. A lot of people, including me, want to do that and I don't even know you and I'm proud. That's a really really wise decision. I believe that when your married you really know who your in love with and sex shouldn't just be a do and forget thing. If you really want it passionate that's the greatest way, in my opinion, to get it.
Great choice.
2006-06-30 10:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by hollajovana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all up to you..but i would say that it is a very good choice..GOOD FOR YOU.... people shouldn't rush into having sex... it should not be just lust but I think that you should really care an have feelings for the persona n love them.. it's good what your doing a lot of teens are losing thier virginity at age 12!!.. if yo do it know chances are it will just be sexual an you will reget doing it.. also most likly the girl that you do it with now will want to explore an see other people an you wont ebnd up marrying her..so yes good for you!!
2006-06-30 10:36:49 · answer #3 · answered by samantha1989 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think it's a good decision to wait till you're older to have sex but not till you're married because things don't always go as planned in life.
2006-06-30 12:13:48 · answer #4 · answered by Mac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is a very wise decision you should wait till your married b/c you know that this person is willing to be with you till ur married. some people regret having sex with their bf/ or g/f and wish they would've waited i say stick with your decision
2006-06-30 11:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by lysa4208 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a good decision. My only recommendation is that you should forget about the eighteen part and say ONLY when you are married. Personally, my requirement is happily married for more than one year (so that I'm happy enough that I won't get divorced and my husband won't desert me and will help take care of my child) have a steady job (so I will have enough money to take care of my child) and that my parents approve (so that they can also help.)
2006-06-30 10:32:43 · answer #6 · answered by Bookgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both will have more respect for each other if you wait until you are married. It is a very sound decision to wait until that time.
2006-06-30 12:20:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is a very wise decision
2006-06-30 10:33:59 · answer #8 · answered by bluekitty8098 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a very wise decision... a lot of guys... believe it or not... perfer to have a girl who waited. Trust me, wait until that special someone comes along.
2006-06-30 10:37:11 · answer #9 · answered by lucki_charmed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gues it's a good decision. But i would start my sex life after i have a very good partner, but anyway not before 16/17. ur more clever than those idiots who *** girls aan let them pregnant :P
2006-06-30 10:34:32 · answer #10 · answered by machu pitchu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be a wise decision.
2006-06-30 10:34:11 · answer #11 · answered by Arkee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋