We used to be best friends for 4 years, but then we got into this huge fight..... She gossiped about me and told lies to almost the whole school. Ive tried saying sorry to her, but she wont listen...People are sending me email saying that they know where I live and stuff...... Should I still try and be friends with her?? Or what?
2006-06-30 03:21:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
NO if they are doing that and she is trying to get ur rep messed up then why be with someone like that ....i can see that ur a loveing and careing person because u keep trying to forget about her bad side and look at the good ......but u need 2 think about if u did become friends again what would it be like and what would happen if u got in a big fight just like last time so think befor u do !
all luck 2 u
xoxoxox
2006-06-30 03:27:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, mi name is luis and I had a problem like this in the 7th and 8th grade, but I'm a guy so I don't know if my advice will do any good.Anyways, here's my story : I had a friend then in the 7th grade (i can't even remember how it happened) he started being a total ****** and then we (my sort of clicke) jsut told him we didn't want him around anymore then he began stealing our stuff (like inportant class text books and HW) and we all knew it was him, but we didn't do anything about it. we tried telling him to stop and to let it go, but he just wouldn't listen. many of htem said we should steal HIS stuff and beat him up, but I told them that he was now friendless for being such an ****** all the time and he wouldn't make any more friends that way and it would hurt him on the inside inside, not phisically, and we didn't have to do a thing to get back at him, just ignore him. So my advice to you is to just ignore that girl. If she is like a total B^#*% to you even after you've tried to apologize and be friends again, then she doen't deserve you friendship, or any body else's for that matter, and she will probably die alone and friendless in a log cabin in the mountains. If you do anything to try to get back at her, she can then tell on you and you will get in trouble, but if you just ignore her it will hurt her feeling and you can't get in any trouble like that.
If i was unclear about anything email me at luistorres619@yahoo.com.
2006-06-30 10:44:42 · answer #2 · answered by ATLboyatCT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEy sound like she doesn't want to be your friend anymore, you shouldn't be her friend too. SHe did this mean and nasty things to you, so why are you wasting your time to say sorry to her. Tell other peoplel that she is lying to all of you. Maybe the others will listen, maybe not. But you shouldn't be her friend anymore. Make new friends!
Good luck!
2006-06-30 10:28:17 · answer #3 · answered by xoxo§kailey§ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey,
read ur Q n i wen thru d same thing some yrs ago bt in my case it ws my frnds mistake well she did d same as ur frnd bitched abt me 2 all my frnds, i even tried to tak 2 her on ths bt it jus looked to diff n then i reached a point where i thot its imp 2 hav frnds bt, nt those who dnt really understand us ntak ill abt us rt n in frnds fights r commomn bt in ur case i dnt knw ho is wrng bt i wud say keep on tryin till u fell its really enough coz life is 2 short 2 hold on we nd 2 move on n ur movin on somewhere will hurt ur frnd coz i guess by u sayin sorry some is really hav a gr88 time n attension 2... thnk of it
hope my advice helps u :)
cheers
nikki.
2006-06-30 10:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by cheerfulnikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really want to be friends with her go to her house after school and have a serious takl about it. if you dont want to forgive her, tell her to stop telling lies because you thought she was better then that. that should make her think. I hope everything works out.
*JJ*
2006-06-30 10:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea 4 real. Shes not even worth it! if shes going to act like that, then u shouldnt keep on trying to apoligize its not your fault! Shes the one that should be apoligizing!
2006-06-30 10:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by krissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont waste time with people like that. She is not a good friend.
2006-06-30 10:24:19 · answer #7 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her
move on
get new friends
2006-06-30 10:25:38 · answer #8 · answered by mini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋