Ok here goes, I'm a single woman and before you start to feel sorry for me don't because I love it. I like sole control of the remote control, I love having a bed to myself without somebody snoring in my ear or shoving his p**** in my back at 6am in the morning. The only thing I do miss is the sex. So is it wrong to have 2 or 3 men on call, who I can ring, tie them to a bed, smuther them in ice cream and abuse until my hearts content and after I've finished kick them out? (not at the same time of course) A male friend of mine said men don't like to be used they want to do the using. What do you think?
2006-06-30 03:18:52 · 51 answers · asked by ? 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Why am I a hoe Al? If a man does it he's a Stud, if a woman does it she's a hoe.
It would all be extremly safe and everyone would know there would be no strings attached.
2006-06-30 03:42:34 · update #1
Girl, do your thing! I do it to! you have to get lovin where you can get it!!!
"Don't hate the player just cause you ain't one hate the game!"
2006-06-30 03:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
A person is not being used if they know the rules of the game before the game begins. So if you have two or three men, who each understand clearly that their role in your life is to provide you with sex when you want it, and to maximize your enjoyment and go home well before sunrise, so what? Just a word or two of caution. Make everything abundantly clear. For example, neither of them are to call or come by without being invited. Neither of them need any additional information about your life; what you do and with whom. Encounter frequency is not their choice, but solely yours. Only you have the authority to suggest any changes in the rules.
If they know the rules; and agree to abide by them, have fun.
I think the only thing wrong with your strategy is how you think about it. I would not consider being tied to a bed and "smuthered" (your spelling) with ice cream abuse if I agrreed to it.
When sex is over until you call again, the logical thing to do is go home.
As for your friend who advises that men prefer "using" over "being used," offer him an ocassional session and see what he says.
One final cautionary word that 's probably unnecessary, but here it is anyway: since you don't know who they're with when not with you, "riding bareback" is not the best way for this "trip."
Have fun!
2006-06-30 03:37:47 · answer #2 · answered by mcjordansr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl, hope you don't mind me answering.
First, I'd like to say I agree with you about the having the remote and bed to yourself. Feels kinda selfish, but I love it!
Second, I see nothing wrong with this, if you are using a guy who is using you also, then he probably doesn't feel bad about it. Your friend probably means just the good guys who are interested in more of a relationship with you are the ones who don't want to be used. If that's what you are doing, it is kinda mean, but oh well. And I bet they probably aren't gonna complain even if that is the case, judging by what you explained above!
2006-06-30 03:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by angelbaby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Im not a guy answering this qestion, but amen to that. You took the words right out of my mouth. It seems to be the only happy way to get by in life. It's very enjoyable. I dont have to cuss someone about their habits and they dont have to cuss me. Problem solved. As for having a couple guys to ring, well this isn't a hard thing to accomplish. There are plenty great guys who are like us women. They understand and have the same needs we do. We just like being single and not tied down. Amen to that!
2006-06-30 03:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by buckers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Girl !!!
Your and adult engaging in adult behavior, so where is the problem ?
As long as no-one is hurt (tie marks on the wrists accepted) then enjoy yourself.
Need to ask though, what flavour ice cream and, that 6am thing, its a bit of an automatic reaction and not always our fault :-)
2006-07-02 21:26:21 · answer #5 · answered by willw8andc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If men can carry on with more than one female,, than it is only fair that women can do also. If you let them know up front about your wants and needs,, that they are strictly a pleasure partner,, and no serious commitment needed; If they're man enough, shouldn't be a problem. In real life, this isn't always true. Male/Female
2006-06-30 03:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by coffyadict 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask this question in reverse to a woman and see what answer she gives.
Would a woman like to be "on call" with up to 2 others, where a man can call her up, tie her to a bed, bla bla bla...?
No? Thought not. Why that is doesn't matter.
2006-06-30 03:24:38 · answer #7 · answered by k² 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, whatever floats your boat.
There are more varied sex lives in the world than we will ever realise, there's no such thing as normal anymore, as long as your all happy.
Personally I prefer to be in a relationship but I know many guys who would love that situation.
2006-06-30 03:25:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there are guys who like to be used... and probably just as many as guys who like to do the using. It is the same in any relationship liike this: As long as both sides know what they are getting into and what is expected/wanted... no problems either way. Kudos.
2006-06-30 03:24:03 · answer #9 · answered by daiunus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, that's not my cup of tea,so to speak but if your all consenting adults and everyone knows the ground rules than I say go for it.
Your friend is partly right.Most men don't like to be used and they DON'T like to use other people.
2006-06-30 05:28:23 · answer #10 · answered by timelord1962 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds fine to me.
Can I suggest you switch to Iced Magic though (you know - the topping). It's not as messy as the Icecream and once it sets you really have to work at it to lick it off.
What man would complain about that, they don't even have to have that awkward Hug / cuddle with you afterwards.
2006-06-30 03:26:31 · answer #11 · answered by 'Dr Greene' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋