I have been with a women for about an 1 1/2 year. We live about 5 hrs apart, hwever she is in the process of moving up and even still we just can't seem to get enough of one another. I'm not referring to sex I just mean one another's time. We just spent four days together 24/7,pretty much. We are going to the bathroom separatley :). When she left to go back home we missed each by that evening. Any spare time we have we find ourselves wanting to talk to one another on the phone. I'm totally in love with this women and she has told me the same. I enjoy her company very much but I have heard very bad things about co dependanet relationships. I don't think that's what we are, because we both lead sepratre productive lives. I just am very happy in this realtionship and seeing as we are moving in together soon I want to make sure we aren't tooin love, if that's possible. She is my best so is it ok to spend all our down time together? Or should we make ourselves have alone time?
2006-06-30 03:12:38 · 8 answers · asked by tana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
have some alone time cause if not later u 2 might want to have time w/ friends and one of u will feel lost as u have consumed ur self w/ one another
2006-06-30 03:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If something is uncomfortable in life, blame the relationship only at the end. There are always room for solving other issues, especially when both of you are happy with each other. Try to solve it by being as close as possible and enjoying the moments you are together to the extreme. Your relationship is very healthy.
2006-06-30 10:20:42 · answer #2 · answered by Jinesh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax and enjoy the relationship.
the new life together will, of course, eventually reduce the passion which was generated by being apart
but that should be allowed to happen in it's own time.
it's nice that you value the relationship enough to be alert for the problem.
I think both having a job will be enough time apart for now.
2006-06-30 10:33:38 · answer #3 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you two sound very happy...but everybody needs alone time. whether they want to admit it or not. this doesnt mean that you have an unhealthy relationship, jus that you two dont need to be so dependant on one another. try to get her to hang out with her girlies. im sure that her friends and yours would love to see theyre bestest buddies again after so long :).
2006-06-30 10:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by koda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's okay to spend time with her but seeing that you sort of have separate lives, i wouldn't move in with her until you have the commitment of marriage.. if she does have a separate life you might want to get to know her better... no matter what she still needs to be your best friend no matter what happens... if you date, get married, or jyust stay distant and relationship should start with a base of friendship to hold it together
2006-06-30 10:17:52 · answer #5 · answered by musicfish93 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a wonderful relationship. hope it stays that way when you are together 24/7/365.
2006-06-30 10:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think its unhealthy so dont knock it and dont take one another for granted and all should continue nicely
2006-06-30 10:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,
lets see.
she love u
u love her.
wats gonna stop u?
move on man....
who care wat others think?
as soon as u 2 happy together rite?
2006-06-30 10:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by Nu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋