2006-06-30 03:07:17 · 15 answers · asked by holly c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why do you 'want' to love that sort of individual? It's mind over matter thins time girl. He is all about perversion and betrayal. Try to think about the principles behind what he has done to you. He will not choose you over his lifestyle.
2006-06-30 03:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, he was definitely wrong for lying(by omission) to you about for 2yrs! He can say it's because he didn't know or wasn't sure but believe me, you know when you're attracted to the same sex. It was probably difficult for him to accept at first. Maybe he had to make his peace with it before telling you. Second, a person can be bisexual and still be monogamous. Being bisexual doesn't necessarily turn you into a cheater or a 'player'-It simply means that you are attracted to both males and females. But you can love the one you're with and be faithful to that person. If he's willing to be with only you, then you have no problem. It all depends on the qualities(values,morals) an individual has.You should have an open and totally honest discussion with him. Since he's lied to you for two years though, it would be difficult to trust him at this point. I think this is something you share at the beginning of a relationship-when you know it's starting to get serious. If you like you can email me and I'll tell you more in detail. Listen to your head on this one more so than your heart and I hope you realize how important protection is. I hope things work out for the best although the best may not be exactly what you want. Good luck.
2006-06-30 03:30:16 · answer #2 · answered by beachlover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off.. he may not have been completely sure about it plus may not have known what you would say if he told you (fear of rejection). If you love him and vise-versa, you both should be able to talk about how you both feel about this & what expectations there are. Be stern about your feelings and let him know that you can't continue with this relationship if there is no trust and honesty. Let him know you are there for him, but he can't hold things back like this. If this is something you feel you cannot accept, let him know. If you can look past this and you both truely love each other, you'll work things out. I know plenty of couples were this has happened to them. Most found ways to work things out, but you have to have an open mind and have a strong, genuine love for each other. What ever you do, don't blame yourself.
2006-06-30 03:27:04 · answer #3 · answered by Adrian B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can take no one advice but you own you should follow your heart and it will lead you in the right path. If you feel you really love him than stay with him. But take a minute and think about what ya doing. Only you and god know so follow your heart. Maybe god put this in your way so you can find you true love. Be aware that most things happen for a reason. Need to talk more my email adress is crishellbrown@yahoo.com
2006-06-30 03:43:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only if your bisexual too and open to the real possibility he might be seeing other men and woman while in a relationship with you.
If your fine having a boyfriend who is attracted to men and woman, I say deal with the consequences that can follow such revelation not to mention the deadly sexual diseases out to day I would think seriously about my decision to stay.
2006-06-30 03:16:36 · answer #5 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you extremely love him take him to a counselor on the instantaneous and if he would not comprise you it skill he's pleased with the way he's and that i imagine then you might want to get out of this courting once accessible because it is going to ultimately bring about discomfort reason you're 0.33 on his record and he does no longer sound like he will ever manage to grant you the real importance you deserve. relax is as a lot as you. each of the desirable and god bless.
2016-11-30 01:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a question that you will have to answer for yourself i can however tell you that many females have gone through this some stay and others did not but you have to do whats best for you can you live with this guy knowing that he does it with other guys as for me i can't do it i can't be with a guy if he's cheating with other girls i wouldn't be thats just me
2006-06-30 03:15:30 · answer #7 · answered by mdg1866@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you he won't cheat on you with male or female. But if he does you are better off with someone else. Use protection.
2006-06-30 03:12:31 · answer #8 · answered by noseygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, I guess it shouldn't really matter, although he did lie to you about it for 2 years.
It isn't like he is gay, so if you love him I would stay, but be prepared for some life changes.
2006-06-30 03:10:37 · answer #9 · answered by jetskichick25 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no u don't want to end with a std right or have your hearth hurt every time he call u by his lover name or something like that are you willing to share, I don't think so... just move on
2006-06-30 03:10:00 · answer #10 · answered by ماركو الونزو 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋