I was very good friends with someone who's daughter was involved at one point with my son. My son now see's another girl which for some strange makes my friend uncomfortable? Help me....
2006-06-30 02:58:50 · 8 answers · asked by rottenkid4560 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think that is strange. the relationships that you son hold after you friend's daughter should have no effect on the friendship between you both. i could see how the daughter might feel uncomfortable but why the mother? i would suggest you talk with her over some coffee and and try to salvage the friendship. explain to her that kids break up all the time and ask her if there was a problem with the way that your son treated you daughter whil they were going out.
2006-06-30 03:04:22 · answer #1 · answered by sa-da-tay 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is be the same towards her as you were. If her daughter is hurting then she is also hurting and she is holding that against you, she probably dislikes your son for hurting her daughter and is staying away until she has calmed down and can see things logically.
Be as friendly towards her as you were and give her time to come to terms with the situation, once she realises you are the same person you were all will be fine
2006-06-30 10:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by madamspud169 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a family has been part of your life its hard to deal with a break up and when i went through this i just stop going by the family so that i did not have to talk about the past but if this is a friend that you want to keep just let her know that you two have other thing to talk about but if you find that it's not working for you a easy break will be the best thing to do
2006-06-30 10:07:31 · answer #3 · answered by mdg1866@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you can't control your sons feelings and it shouldn't end your friendship,it's not your fault
2006-06-30 10:07:46 · answer #4 · answered by william5109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't hang out with her anymore.
2006-06-30 10:01:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just taslk to him/her about the odd occurrence and ask them if anything else is bothering them
2006-06-30 10:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by musicfish93 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just get out of it
2006-06-30 10:01:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time heals all wounds
2006-06-30 10:58:41 · answer #8 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋