I said some mean things to one of my friends last night. what should i do?

Question

Ya, so I said some mean things to her because i was feelin depressed and angry and i had been for a few days, but she just wanted to talk about her problems, which is what we always talk about. And she keeps saying shes worse off than me (has more problems in her life) and i dont wanna make that kind of judgment, i just think if your friend needs you you should be reassuring, it doesnt matter who has more problems. She never wants to talk about me unless im telling her a secret or something. We are really good friends tho; i know her only secret and she knows most of mine, but I just get rlly angry sometimes.

I did say some rlly mean things last night, but so did she. How should i make up w/ her? should i make up? someone help me please this is important!!!!

Answer 1

I think you should make up, don't throw away things you have, value the things you have, call her, IM her, anything, say sorry of what you did, and I think she'll say sorry too, I'm not sure, but I hope you and your friends can make up...

Answer 2

she sounds very self-centered. why would you want to be with someone who always wants to top your problems and only wants to hear the latest gossip? That's not a friend to me. I knew someone like this. She would ask me how things were going and as soon as i started to tell her-she couldn't wait to let me know what was going on with her boyfriend. Needless to say, she is not my friend anymore.

Answer 3

i know friends can be really frustrating i have a friend JUST like that. and we got in a huge fight and we've gotton in a billion but we made up. if you forgive somone its so special for your friend. but if i were u i would apologize for the mean things you said and she should 2. good luck
*JJ*

Answer 4

Keep It Simple, pick up the phone and call her and say that you are sorry.