What should I do!!?
2006-06-30 02:52:54 · 15 answers · asked by Kayla 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
No. That's an easy one.
Getting good sex is tough at any age but especially as a teen or young woman. The sex gets a lot better when there is an emotional connection that makes you both interested in learning how to please your partner. Without that component, he'll have a great time and you'll likely be left "what was the big deal?"
While I'm not a big proponent of "waiting until your wedding night," I am a big proponent of saving yourself for men that are really worth the risk. Every time you have sex you risk your health, you risk getting pregnant, and you risk having your heart broken.
Most of the time, you also put your self-esteem at risk because women who feel good about themselves have sex with people they care about, and who care about them. If you're giving it up to anyone that asks, what does that say about the way you feel about yourself?
In other words, you are worth far better than you're likely to get with "just a friend."
In my opinion, I call that kind of sex, "a waste of clean sheets."
Walk on by. Something better will be along and probably not too long a wait.
2006-06-30 03:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by Lori A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U want to be honest with him earlier he imagine u dont. I truly have an same project and lost alot of robust acquaintances and strong relationships for that reason. What I truly have realized to over come that's to jot down and digital mail and clarify ur thoughts torwards him and clarify that ur writing it in an digital mail cuz u have subject matters with conversing how u sense. Emails r better cuz u get to assert each and every thing you've been wanting without the conflict of words. this works somewhat nicely i promise
2016-10-13 23:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Its totally not worth it especially if hes not a virgin. You can risk getting pregnant or getting whatever else may be lurking especially HPV which you can get with or without a condom which is as common as the common cold. In my opinion it doesn't hurt at all to just wait.
2006-06-30 12:08:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heard 1 in 5 adults in North America have Herpes, so don't you need testing unless you want the gift that keeps on giving after the boyfriend is long gone???
2006-06-30 03:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by cptcanuck2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to do it, tell him no.
If you feel like you're ready and want to do it, then say yes.
I'd assume since you're asking it here, you're not ready to do it. Then just listen to your heart and say "no" to that friend. There's always another chance.
2006-06-30 02:58:09 · answer #5 · answered by meetha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont want to then say no. Dont beat around the bush, people dont like that. If you want to then go for it.
2006-06-30 02:58:03 · answer #6 · answered by Saint Chaos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him NO!!!!!! no no no.....he is your friend and should not be asking questions like this......i would say sorry but no thanks.....and dont ever ask me again.....
2006-06-30 02:57:03 · answer #7 · answered by Rebekah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont, dont have sex with a guy your nmot sure your gonna marry, its a waste of your time, and basiclly when you guys dump, it will feel like he used you.
2006-06-30 04:13:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. You should only have sex with someone you love and who loves you, it will mean so much more.
2006-06-30 03:20:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want 2 say ya, don't want 2 say no
2006-06-30 03:03:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋