2006-06-30 02:50:56 · 14 answers · asked by ambidextrous25 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
most people, if not all. how could we live and not be disappointed at one point or another? it's just a part of life
2006-06-30 02:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi :) You seem to be having the knack of asking great intriguing questions.. hmmmn,
One gets disappointed - certainly, when the person does not get what is expected. This is the only time there is something called disappointment. That means to say where there was disappointment, there was some expectation.
Now, is expectation is right ? I dont think so. The true love is without any expectations. Because expectation is something like taking, not giving. But love is about giving not taking. Because you share love - not take love.
Expectation is like depending on some one, for something, at one point of time. Which does not happen at that time, from that person - and leads to disappointment. Thus it is dependance. Dependance can never bring you happiness. it brings mysery through disappaointments.
Disappointment is not accepting what you have. That means not being able to live for the truth of the moment. Is it good.. No - I dont think so. Acceptance of what is there, should be the truth. This could bring the enjoyment in everything what you do. Thus, no disappointments.
huh ... does this make sense ? Let me know.
2006-07-03 03:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by deebeein 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup a lady came up to me and said I was cute. We started making love and things changed in her personality.She gained a lot of weight So did I We are close in love , but 4000 miles away from.now that is dissappointment..
2006-06-30 10:02:47 · answer #3 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a difficult question!Because is you have been completely disappointed then you will not be able to be with anybody.
The only ones who are like this, are the ones who commit suicide when the partner leave them,but they can't answer to your question!
2006-06-30 10:00:22 · answer #4 · answered by faunpas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I have. Especially when the ahole threw me down a flight of stairs, told me that I couldn't work, couldn't go to school, couldn't go out for a girl's night out, couldn't do anything I wanted to do, and when I leave, he stabs me 16 times. He's now in prison for attempted murder, which is where he belongs.
2006-06-30 09:55:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a rhetorical question if ive ever seen one. im sure a lot of people have felt that way at one point or another. you gotta just get back on the horse
2006-06-30 09:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I joked when I was 17 if this relationship did not work I would join a nunnery..
2006-06-30 09:58:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yea!!!!! thts happening 2 me now, but im gonna try 2 get passed it cause its a sign tht its not meant 2 b.... u can get over it 2
2006-06-30 12:57:05 · answer #8 · answered by cold_as_balls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you haven't been dissappointed, then you have never loved
2006-06-30 09:53:39 · answer #9 · answered by Caus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Several times. I just didn't let it get the best of me.
2006-06-30 11:16:30 · answer #10 · answered by Beth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋