He claims the reason he flirts is because he is the one that is insecure and finds that he needs to prove to himself he is still attractive. He is having issues regarding aging..and feels he is not as attractive as he used to be...and when he flirts and gets attention it boosts his ego ( he used to tell he did it to boost their ego). Should I believe and respect him at this point? I am confused....I did ot expect this response from him whatsoever!
2006-06-30 02:44:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well of course he's insecure. Of course he needs the attention but where does that leave you ? As he gets even older what else will he need to do to boost his ego ? So basically having you as his women counts as nothing. Whether he's doing it for them or doing it for himself its still wrong. He is disrespectful to you and doesn't even care that it bothers you. Men come packed full of excuses for their bad behavior. Women shouldn't just sit around and say "Well he's a man".
2006-06-30 02:49:25 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of all the reasons he finds to dig up referring to his flirting, when he's with you it's downright disrespectful to not only you but also to whatever relationship you have. For your own self respect and for whatever it's worth if he won't stop his flirting especially with you by his side you better off without him. Today its flirting - tomorrow would be cheating to prove his masculinity. All I can say if it's not a serious relationship leave him or ask him to stop flirting since all the attention he needs should be coming from you and no one else. Good luck and have some self respect.
2006-06-30 09:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by ilana73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you is girlfriend he should only worry about impressing you, no one else. And since you have him, I mean ya a couple then him impressing you isn't needed because he has you. I think thats a bunch of bull he just made up a sorry excuse so you feel sorry but I wouldn't. So ask him "Should you be impressing me or the other girls you flirting with."
2006-06-30 09:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by !!yentruoc!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm....sounds like he's changing his story. Maybe he's been embarrassed and has come to terms why he does it. Have you told him how hurt you are when he does it? Yes, flirting can be annoying, but just as long as you're the one he comes home to at night, then don't worry too much.
2006-06-30 09:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The purpose of boyfriend / girlfriend relationship is future or impending marriage.
What should matter to him is, do you and he get along fine. He's more worried about what uninvolved people think. Screwy! This guy doesn't sound suitable for marriage. I say, get rid of him.
2006-06-30 09:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by mrearly2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes believe him! If you don't then where's the trust.
If he flirts tell him you aren't comfortable with this situation and you'll have to look else where.
2006-06-30 09:52:55 · answer #6 · answered by crystallamp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bs......don't believe him, but pretend 2 anyway. Just tell him 2 cut it out.......or dump him, theres no reason he should flirt with other girls. Tell him 2 flirt with u instead...
2006-06-30 09:47:24 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Weasel ♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you don;t have to put up with it he has you that should be enough for him if he flirting with other girls then you need to leave him
2006-06-30 09:57:30 · answer #8 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋