Quick but true! I've known this guy for about 6 yrs, 1 yr and 2 months ago we started a relationship. I practiclly took care of him because he did not work at the time. I handled all financial situations. 3 days ago he bought a cell phone, he is now working, and I haven't seen him for about a week. He also no longer stays with me. I call him no answer, or he'll hang up on me after a 2 minute conversation. Of course I grew feelings for this person, wrong to say I even fell in love. But I feel so ashamed of my self for falling in a trap for an asshole like him. Ladies beware first names Jorge last name Rosario.
2006-06-30 02:27:42 · 13 answers · asked by cOMpLiCaTeD 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Send him a bill for all you did for him in that time....he won't necessarily respond....but at least you'll feel better.
2006-06-30 02:30:19 · answer #1 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you might not acually be in love but in love with the fact that you can. people say that they love you who knows what is going on in his mind. you dont know what he is doing because you are not putting your foot down. he is trying to get away with what he can because he is probaly used to it from the past. i dont think that you should let him keep doing this. there are other people in the world that would search forever to find someone because they are in the same situation as you. dont keep on letting him do this becasue he might be doign something around your back and you wouldnt know because there is no contact between both of you. if he really loves you he would try to contact you and wouldnt hang up on you after having "only" a two minute conversation. my boyfri end and i talk for hours almost everynight and see eachother almost everyday. that guy cant buy you love and that is what he is doing
2006-06-30 09:36:16 · answer #2 · answered by babii cakes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You set yourself up for a recipe of disaster in your relationship.
What you did was fatten a rat for another cat. You helped build this man up in the process of bringing you down mentally.
I don't know why woman like you continue to be used and left
deserted after taking care of a man. He's on his feet know and face the fact your services has been rendered and it shows he
has no more use for you and can now stand on his own two feet thanks to you as a crutch and now he's gone and you know what
I see a possibility that someone else will know enjoy the fruits of your labor to this guy.
Always remember, someone else junk can turn out to be someone else treasures.
Remember if you want to take care of someone and get treated with respect I suggest you get a pet they love unconditionally.
2006-06-30 09:38:10 · answer #3 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is a jerk the least he could of done was to tell you hey im moving out,i wouldnt have anything to do with him i mean anything and what goes around comes around and you said he no longer stays with you?He used you and took advantage of you and someday he will need someone and hopefully even though you said you were in love with him that you will have the strength to not give in to him 6 years is a long time and i would be devastaded and so hurt by him so you do what is good for you and respect yourself and do what is right for you and he will see that you are doing good and believe me that is sometimes the best revenge to do to someone so good luck to you cc
2006-06-30 09:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by readyhead42@yahoo.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him fast. Anytime you want to call him, call a girlfriend instead. Go out with your girl friends and see what else is out there. You certainly don't want to fall back into this routine, so if the next guy that catches your eye doesn't have a job, move on.
2006-06-30 09:32:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like these are known as "CON ARTISTS". I should know; I was married to one. After 5 years of marriage, I couldn't take it anymore, and got a divorce You're best to just move on and forget about him. Things would never get better, only worse. Trust me.....
2006-06-30 09:36:17 · answer #6 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
number 1 first take time for ur self go out with friends, Do things that will make you happy for urself.
Date but don't lay ur heart on the line and in time you will heal and then you might meet someone who will forfill ur needs
2006-06-30 09:35:30 · answer #7 · answered by Mrb5219 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have all done things we wish we hadn't from time to time. Dont beat yourself up over it, learn from it. Try to figure out how you might have allowed this jerk to use you. Life is full of lessons, we just have to make sure we learn them. Do yourself a favor. Dont talk to this guy anymore.
2006-06-30 09:34:05 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, go to school and take a spelling class, then go out with friends and find someone that makes you happy. Don't sleep with every guy you meet. Just be yourself and the right guy will come along.
2006-06-30 09:31:30 · answer #9 · answered by swaman33 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find yourself someone that will treat you like a princess! Looks like you deserve a good change.
2006-06-30 09:31:24 · answer #10 · answered by Kristin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋