she didnt work of some time and start to chat online. she meet the guy n both start to chat till late night. i told her before that i'm not happy she chat till so late. she suddenly send me a letter that she want to divorce me. who is in the wrong and what should i do.
2006-06-30 01:56:39 · 17 answers · asked by Andy Heckmen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i hope you do not have kids.
Divorce is painfull and hurts a lot of people.Family and friends, the parents. I pray that she will come to her senses,
you cannot fall in love over 'n chatline- unless she met this
guy in secret.
I realy hope she is only joking or looking for attenion and this
will all blow over.
Be strong.
2006-06-30 02:01:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
There is much more to this story than her staying up late and chatting. Perhaps there are other issues that cuased her to look for something else. Ask her if she would be willing to get marriage counseling and see if you can work out the problems. As far as him being younger, that probably doesn't have much to do with it. It sounds like she was looking for someone to talk to.
2006-06-30 09:01:35 · answer #2 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She got emotional support from someone else, perhaps you were not giving her attention and took for granted what you had at home.
Women cheat ussually because of emotional discontentment rather than for physical needs. No one is to blame, since there was a problem that was not fixed and obviuosly you didn't notice it until she send you a letter.... more evidence that you just abandon her emotionally and she found a lending ear and someone to give her the attention that she seem not be getting at home.
Sorry.
2006-06-30 09:02:21 · answer #3 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats sad!!did you give your wife enough attention?women need alot of it and maybe she felt that she wasnt getting enough love and attention.but i tell ya the computer always isnt a good thing to have everywhere u turn there is a dating sight to meet singles and attractive people look even on here there is guys wanting to get girls naked i think it is pretty sick and the companies shouldnt advertise so many dating sights it makes curious people look into it and then it may lead t o trouble good luck and maybe you can work this out with her why waste a marriage ona guy that maybe only wants sex
2006-06-30 09:03:09 · answer #4 · answered by And life goes on 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. Better yet, beg her to go. Chances are pretty good that she'll be back...and then the ball will be in your court. Most younger guys only want older women for one reason....then they get bored and move on. If you decide to let her come back (which I wouldn't) make sure that she knows that it will be under your terms and conditions.
2006-06-30 09:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by mazey1967 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do when that happens, the only think you can do is let her have her fantasy. With time she'll see that the person she met on line can not compare with you. And she'll want to return to you again. That when you have to decide weather or not to take her back.
2006-06-30 09:13:51 · answer #6 · answered by manny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is wrong first for telling you in a letter and second for doing it in your house, however you will win the divorce by default since she had an affair in the marriage.
2006-06-30 09:05:59 · answer #7 · answered by mimismom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi very sad man, don't be sad though she is one cheating MF so give her away to this toy boy and go and get you a decent wife that is not so a big ****!!!!!!!
There are lotz of fish in the see!!!!!!
2006-06-30 09:03:00 · answer #8 · answered by kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is diffently in the wrong. but all you can do is let her walk. you need to be able to get on with your own life without her. you are too good for her. best of luck.
2006-06-30 09:07:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sorry to hear that but give her what she wants and go along ur way and i guarantee she will want to come back hopefully its not too late by then
2006-06-30 09:06:34 · answer #10 · answered by JAZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋