she feels down and self conscious because she thinks she's not pretty. I don't think she's bad at all. she says she weren't given many oppurtunity because of how she looks. i like her but i'm starting to get tired of hearing this. i thinks she's over-reacting. she's also such a worrier and very sensitive. I try to cheer her up but i'm not having much luck.
2006-06-30 01:37:25 · 5 answers · asked by Faireen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
er, anyway it's not all about getting guy, it's like everyday stuff, like getting a job, meeting new friends etc. Thanks a lot for your responses.
2006-06-30 02:00:10 · update #1
Yeah, i think she worry too much of what other people think. she has very high expectation of herself, she set her standard too high. I mean nothing wrong with trying to be the best, as long as you don't ruin yourself.
2006-06-30 02:09:22 · update #2
You need to tell her there is more to life than juss what people think.You need to let her know that she's beautiful,tell her everyday.You also need to let her know that you're tired of hearing about it,but you really do want to help her.
Make sure you tell her that juss because a guy doesn't like her,there is more to the world.
She doesn't need to be a f*cking playboy model to look good.
The oppurtunity thing,let her know that its not HER fault.But,maybe because of your living situation,other stuff like that.
I hope I've helped at all.
-Nick.
2006-06-30 01:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by inurface012391 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can reinforce that she is a beautiful person to help build her self-esteem and make her feel good about herself. Show her in the mirror so she can see what you are talking about. She has to feel good about it herself and can't rely on other people to make her happy so she needs to deal with the deep down issues that are making her feel the way she feels. She might need some professional counseling.
2006-06-30 08:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds a bit like me. I stopped comparing myself with others and things are begining to look better. She should learn to start believing that she has certain qualities that are unique to her and no one else. She's going to be miserable if she keeps feeling like this and she must accept that she'll find the right person someday and it needn't be rushed into...i hope she realises it soon.
2006-06-30 08:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by n2cstic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Constantly shower her with compliments, being sure to inform her of her strong points. If she hears how great she is , she can throw away all negative thoughts. Try to let her see herself through your eyes, even if you have to use an analogy or two.
2006-06-30 08:45:37 · answer #4 · answered by ythefrwn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people like to complain, the glass is always going to be half empty, nothing you can do.
2006-06-30 08:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋