why do they do it when they say they love their wife?
or how can they say the love was lost when they really loved her so much before that he's willing to risk everything.
2006-06-30 01:31:35 · 37 answers · asked by myri 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is not a man or woman on this earth that cheats on their husband or wife and LOVES them. IT IS NOT POSSIBLE. Loving someone goes hand in hand with a certain maturity that has nothing to do with age. You have not achieved true love with someone until you are totally committed, honor, respect, and cherish their presence in your life. This person is of such value to you and most precious that an act of infedelity would not be possible. People this is not a fairytale it can and will happen if you don't just settle. Tell yourself over and over again that you are the prize and demand respectful treatment in your life.
2006-06-30 02:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cheating and lying aren't male-exclusive activities. Some people cheat because they're bored or dissatisfied, while others just put their own immediate gratification before anything else. Being married doesn't make someone more prone to cheating, but it does make someone more prone to boredom. It's also not cheating if you're not in an exclusive relationship, so single cheaters aren't cheaters.
Look around at the situation, and you'll probably be able to figure out why he cheated. Was he a big one-night-stand player type before getting married and you thought he'd change? Have work, kids, and house chores taken priority over spending time together? When he comes home does he feel welcome or does he face a lot of fighting and complaints? All those things can make someone drift away and close off the feelings that used to be a strong commitment to the relationship.
2006-06-30 01:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by the alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men think they can do anything they want and make double standards when women do these things. But sorry to say most men do what a woman let them get away with in the first place. If that man notices opportunity to do wrong and they try you by doing a little wrong thing and nothing is said or done...then you might as well expect the worst and big things to happen.
So there's fault on both sides.
2006-06-30 01:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by tasgilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The culture has changed. 50% of all married people cheat. Men do it for the same old reasons. Women do it for same old same old too but now they do as a power trip thing in a relationship that's heading for divorce. In the case that I know about the woman said "she wanted meaningless sex and needed to do it and it was the right' thing before she divorced her husband. That was my first and last date with that woman who was a very intellegent professional and a shrink too. This stuff makes me very uncomfertable. I never cheated, it would have been easy, my ex wife never appreciated my being true, I'm now a post divorce neovirgin
2006-06-30 01:45:36 · answer #4 · answered by Neal A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its because of the thrill..Not bec they dont love their wives
Neither it means that there would be any change in their behaviour or love after cheating...By nature also Man can procreate with many where as woman gets tied down during procreation...Yes, this was necessary in certain tribes...to have the workforce to work in fields...Though this is not the requirement NOW its done solely for pleasure---But as the saying goes Man distributes his love amongst many and women to only one..
2006-06-30 01:40:35 · answer #5 · answered by sunil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's say that you love candy, I mean you really love candy! You go into a candy store & your told you can only eat one type of candy (kitkat bar) . for the rest of your life.But your allowed to go in & out of the store from time to time unsupervised. You'll always love that kitkat bar, but we can't resist wondering what all those wonderful dellicious others taste like.
Men climax every single time during sex ,98% anyway. most within five minutes. Thats the ultimate high.......
Only about 20-30% of women climax during sex and if, or when they do they take too too damn long!!!
So I can understand why they don't love it as much as we do.
2006-06-30 02:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have asked my male friends the same question. They say that they are happy and satisfied and then they cheat. They say that sometimes its like they are kids in a candy store. The problem is God gave them 2 heads and only enough blood to support one at a time.
2006-06-30 01:37:00 · answer #7 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the million dollar question. Men do not make any sense! They say they love you, then they cheat, but still say they love you. My ex- brother-in-law explained it to me as... Girls cheat with their hearts, men cheat with their penis. That's why men think it's alright, cause it's got no emotion. They also say that if they really love you, they lie about cheating.
2006-06-30 01:35:45 · answer #8 · answered by Miss NancyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my guy was married and lied to me about it. he also still cheats on me and isnt divorced yet. he has women everywhere and is a mess. my gma told me some men just are *** holes and lie and cheat and wont ever change. i feel like i have to stay because i really love him and we have a daughter together as a result of this wonderful mess,
2006-06-30 01:34:15 · answer #9 · answered by meredith o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man is a predator always looking for opportunities (Most men).
It hurts when the loved one knows about such things. Blame it on society for making males dominant.
2006-06-30 01:33:52 · answer #10 · answered by Indian_Male 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋