2006-06-30 01:09:29 · 22 answers · asked by hidden love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Unfortunately little can help you stop crying ... you lost a close friend and that is a very sad thing. It takes time, but try to remember all the good things ... the things about your friend that made you laugh, smile and feel good. Remembering keeps them close to our hearts. Let the tears fall ... grieve so that soon the pain will lessen.
I'm sorry for your loss.
2006-06-30 01:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am truly sorry for your lost hidden love but, this is a very painful thing that you are going through and there is not set in stone limit on how to heal from such a grieving process.
The only thing I will say truthfully is, that you can only take it one day at a time, with every passing day, the pain will not be as bad as the day before, it takes time, My mother pasted away in 1997 at the age of 49 yrs-old, and still right to this day I will hear a song that she may have played a lot when I was younger or it may just remind me of her and I will just break down crying. But the difference is that, it's from a memory, not pain now.
I wish I could give you the magic answer but, there isn't one, just time it's self.......Bless you.
2006-06-30 01:22:26 · answer #2 · answered by Lil Angel 68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for the loss of your friend. Try and remember the good times. Write your feelings in a journal. With other friends why not do a little "remembrance party" Have all your friends get together and discuss your friend that has passed. Talk about your favorite times together. There is nothing wrong with crying, it is all part of the mourning process. Take care, and when you feel up to it, go see your friends parents, they will really appreciate it. Take care!
2006-06-30 01:15:32 · answer #3 · answered by mad_hat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal for you to cry from a loss of a loved one. They are not totally gone though. They are just on the otherside. They have left their love and compassion here with you. Go out and talk to someone and let the tears flow. Then get up and live life where you can have a positive life.
2006-06-30 01:14:36 · answer #4 · answered by elfy1949 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know what I really feel for you cause i have also lost many friends and family close to me.But know this you need to grieve so it gets out some people grieve longer than others so dont beat yourself up about it.My family and I WILL PRAY for you .
Please know this you need to still take care of yourself and maybe in a couple of days you will start feeling better.
Another way of letting go is by writing a letter to your friend after you have written the letter tear it up and throw it away believe me you will see the difference.
2006-06-30 01:32:18 · answer #5 · answered by THE BIG BOSS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stop crying until you no longer need to. Grief takes time. People who cry and grieve do better in the long run than those who try to "suck it up" and hold back. One way that helps is to try and recall happy memories of your friend. Another is to talk with other people who miss your friend too. Community helps.
2006-06-30 01:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by Lioux 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When grieving the loss of a family member or friend, I have always found comfort in two statements.
1) No one is ever truly gone until everyone who's life was touched by them, passes away and is forgotten.
2) We will meet again, somewhere, somehow, someday. Either in this life or another. Our spirits were drawn together here and will be again.
2006-06-30 01:22:47 · answer #7 · answered by Carlton73 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes t bad things happen and for no good reason . It happens and we cant do any thing about it . And often there is no good that will come from it or nothing to learn . Death is what makes life so precious ,be happy that you meet them as your friend even if its for a short time ,Remember the good times. once a person dies they become apart of you forever in your heart and soul you will meet again
2006-06-30 01:18:52 · answer #8 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very sorry to hear this.
Pl. accept my condolences. May the soul rest in peace.
This happens. This happens to everyone. your friend overtook and went past the que. We are also in the que. Think that life is short, make it sweet. Don't stop crying till it stops on its own. That has to come out to give you relief from this incident. Please cool your self. I am with you. I know the pain because I lost my wife who was my best friend for 25 years. But we have to live our lives. Men may come and men may go, I go on forever. That is all my dear. This is the reality of life.
2006-06-30 01:18:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your friend just died (within the past week or so?) i think you should allow yourself to cry. i know for me, i dont get over it, until i cry it out until i cant cry no more, thats how i let that feeling of pain and hurt go through me. thats all you need to do. go to someone else who's close to you and just cry on their shoulder and speak about your friend.
once you done that you need to dry your eyes and look up. believe that your friend is with you in spirit or he/she is an angel watching over you. speak to him/her in your mind and let it go.
keep your friend alive in your memory, give yourself some time to get over his/her death and then try to get back to your life. yes, it wont be the same without them but know that you had the opportunity to know what life was like with them and be grateful for that.
hope this makes you feel better...
2006-06-30 01:19:08 · answer #10 · answered by cher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋