do you think it is possible to have sex with friends or does that change the dynamics of a relationship, i say it does, what do you think?
2006-06-30 01:03:29 · 33 answers · asked by linebacker8 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is possible, but only if you were both COMPLETELY open about it beforehand and honest with yourselves... and you know that it's only physical and temporary. It's very difficult though, and in all honesty... most people don't pull it off. It causes problems.
2006-06-30 01:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the begining it might feel like it is working and the dynamics haven't changed but they do eventually. how can it not? you can't share something that intimate and expect things to stay the same. And i guarantee one of the 2 friends would end up getting hurt because their feelings would change and want to be more than just friends whilst the other one didn't. So no i dont think its possible to have sex and still be just friends.
2006-06-30 01:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does change the dynamics of the relationship, but with some people you can achieve a friendship ballance again. Which is good. But it doesn't happen with all friends, unfortunately.
2006-06-30 01:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by AlphaOne_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I speak from experience.......I would say that yes, it is possible, and it works for some people.
It is difficult to generalise and I don't want to stereotype...but this arrangement is more likely to work if you are male, confident in yourself and not a deep feeling person.
It is less likely to work if you are female and a person with deep emotions. (This describes me, and I've decided for sure that I can't do it, but that is just my experience)
It works well between two mature consenting adults who trust one another.
It can go wrong if one or both fall in love - then it can either turn into a fantastic relationship based on friendship.....or end in pain and mess up the friendship!
Hope this helps.
2006-06-30 01:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by Suzita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely it would change the relationship... But than again, it could also remain the same... I guess it just all depends on how both of you feel after you both have sex... Maybe the sex might be bad, or it just might be the greatest that you ever had... So yeah it could go either way... But than again... It just could be neutral... And remain the same... So yeah it depends...
2006-06-30 01:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by keau 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're lucky it won't. However one of the party may act strangely as they believe the other wants more (not more sex, more relationship). Or one has feelings the other doesn't.
It is entirely possible, but keep the lines of communication open and laugh at yourselves. Also be totally honest if you are the one who only wants sex. If you are the one who may want more - keep it to yourself!!
2006-06-30 01:29:28 · answer #6 · answered by zara c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does. It has been said that for this reason a man shall leave father and mother, be united to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh. So they are no longer two, but one. What therefore God has joined together, let no man put asunder.(1)
Translation: Sure - have sex with your friend. But get married before you do it, and stay married afterward.
2006-06-30 01:15:54 · answer #7 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! Emotions get too tangled up and sometimes one persons feelings change to love while the other persons stays on friendship mode. Not a good idea. It complicates things and could ruin a good friendship.
2006-06-30 01:17:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like everyone else said..... It all depends on the person.... I did it and it ended up in haert break for both of us and Now We need to get over it cuz We have a group of friend who dont know and We have to play it off like nothing ever happened between us.... He has a GF now but he still told me he loved me, and i have someone also but i am sometime unhappy........
2006-06-30 01:19:42 · answer #9 · answered by •°♥Ms. SeXy♥°• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can remain friends as long as you are both in agreement. The only problem is when one or the other becomes involved in another relationship thats when you can truly find out if you will remain friends.
2006-06-30 01:16:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋