my the girlfriend , but now wife, has in the past lied to me about emails to other guys, i cought her and she bold faced lied to me about it for months. now i cant help but wonder if it still happens, is that wrong?
2006-06-30 00:58:32 · 27 answers · asked by lost_n_texas44 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why is emailing a guy wrong they can just be friends!! I mean unless they are cybering or something then I don't see the problem!!
2006-06-30 01:01:34 · answer #1 · answered by mistyblue7404 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is bad. There is lack of trust here as well as some jealousy issues, that need to be worked out. I am a married man that e-mails several women on the web. Some are married, some are not. The thing is, none are of a sexual relationship, all just very friendly and platonic. You should not worry if your wife is trustworthy. If she isn't why are you with her? The big thing here is find out what is going on. Is she trying to get with these guys? Are they just friends? Then work on trust, leave the jealousey behind, Good Luck
2006-06-30 08:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think privacy is privacy. I would not snoop on what my husband was doing and I don't share every email I write or receive with him. I have contacted an old boyfriend and my husband is aware of it BUT he lives far away. We just write off and on to each other and it's no big deal. Maybe she's afraid you'll get upset regardless if nothing is going on. I don't have that kind of a relationship with my husband. I usually just tell him but he doesn't read any of it nor has he asked to. Too many people are asking about this on here and there is so much "snooping" because of being on-line that it is causing relationship problems. Snooping is bad. She is WITH YOU, right?
2006-06-30 08:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what is wrong from experience. I have and am doing the same thing. I bet the reason is that she doesn't fell fulfilled withyou. Maybe you aren't giving her enough attention. Or maybe your sex lives aren't the best. If I were you I would spice things up a bit. And maybe think about getting rid of the net.
2006-06-30 08:02:05 · answer #4 · answered by luv_me_truely 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow man this is a hard one, talking form experance here, its verry hard to get over it. i can understand you wondering now but you still have to ask yourself if you trust her or not, if you do than try to just let those old feelings die and look to the futrue with her.if you cant work through it than cut your losses but if your married i dont thank thats an option. you chose to be there knowing this already. you just need to talk to her and let her know how you feel about it, but once agan talken form experance she will prob get mad about it and always through up the "how many times do i have to appologise for it" explain its not the appologie that your looking for, its the reasuarnce that it wont happen agan that you realy need.
2006-06-30 08:13:42 · answer #5 · answered by armyguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I put pctattletale on my computer and caught my wife emailing her boyfriend ,I even was able to find out where they were going to meet and I just pooped in at the resturant. It was great ! busted !! I sat down with them and we talked. Long story short we all left and got a hotel and we both had sex with her it was great !
2006-06-30 08:59:02 · answer #6 · answered by Jim k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it happened on a time where she wasn't your wife. Now that she is, all changes. Don't be that jelouse, its turns people off.You can start a fight over something that never ment anything or if it ment its over for sure, after all, YOU ARE THE MEN with her!!!
Good Luck
2006-06-30 08:04:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong.....you have the right to be suspicious. She is probably up to no good but make sure before you sayt anything. why did you marry her if she's a liar and in my book she's also a cheater. good luck and check her out cause my bet is that she still does it, probably under an email address you have no idea about.
2006-06-30 08:03:28 · answer #8 · answered by i.might.b.crazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no when u love someone u do strange things so what i would do is hook the computer up where u can tell if she been on certain programs and take it from der but 1st u should know if u ask u will get so make sure u want to know the answer too
2006-06-30 08:03:09 · answer #9 · answered by vetta b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lying about it shows something is wrong. If a marriage isn't built on trust and honesty, then it's no marriage.
If there's no more to it than friendship, then she ought to be open about it - unless she thinks you are the controlling kind who would try and stop her having friends.
2006-06-30 08:01:38 · answer #10 · answered by Owlwings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋