Why is is that a sixteen year old can get pregnant there first time , but i can try and try and nothing happen

Question

Hey sorry about not specifying on the age im 21 ! and have not been on birth control for atleast 2 years now

Answer 1

I certainly understand your frustration. It sounds all neat and tidy when people tell you to relax, it will happen for you. (it isn't them who has to try so hard to get pregnant) However, it may not be you at all. It could be your husband.(I am not placing 'blame'.)
And, it just does not seem fair when a 16 year old girl who doesn't want to be pregnant or need to be pregnat or have any business being pregnant gets pregnant, when a woman who is willing, capable, and ready to have a baby does not get pregnant.
I wish you the best.

Answer 2

Oh goodness. Well, be supportive, i do know you are devastated on the grounds that truthfully if she chooses to keep the youngster you'll be able to be new mum and dad all over again. The issues with abortion and i consider at this stage it could be an operation...It lowers your chances of ever being in a position to: get pregnant, hold a child in you for the whole 9 months and all varieties of dangers surrounding it. The other main issue is if she's immature she won't care now but when she grows up she will ultimately have to care for the actual fact (and this is more likely when she turns into a mother with a husband and many others) that she terminated one of her kid's lifestyles. You can do the adoption option in case you are certain you don't want to deal with a youngster again or in case you truly suppose she's not able (which she undoubtedly doesn't sound like she's competent however hello this can be the way you get her to that maturity she should be at). The preserving alternative...Tremendous difficult on you, you'll have got to instruct a youngster the best way to have a little one. Nevertheless, I know it's tough to claim but when she felt that she was once mature ample to have intercourse you then must hold her to that maturity which results in raising a child. I, personally, would make her hold the child. I feel in the event you feel you are mature sufficient to have sex you feel you're mature ample to have a baby and there you go you've gotten obtained a child, carry it. Only you realize your daughter though, her barriers but when she's that immature I have no idea if she'll be equipped to handle an abortion both. Look on the adoption alternative, someone somewhere could be unable to have a youngster and are watching for a little one and it is a selfless reward to give a pair who are unable to conceive. Just right luck!

Answer 3

Wow, that is a tough question. Part of your answer could be in your question, age. If you're older (which you didn't specify your age) your body may have a harder time getting pregnant. Also, if you've been on birth control pills, sometimes they continue to work long after you've stopped taking them, a few months that is. Also, if you're stressing out about getting pregnant it lowers you chances of conception. The more relaxed you are, the more it improves your chances.

Good luck and keep trying!!!

Answer 4

It has a lot to do with your body. Not all 16 year olds will fall pregnant the first time. Firstly you dont say what your age is and secondly if you have been trying and trying to fall pregnant I would suggest both you and your boyfriend/husband go to see a doctor and have an examination to see if there may be a medical problem with either you or your boyfriend/husband. I wish you luck and hope it all happens for you.

Answer 5

Maybe because a 16 yr old has not been on BC. I hear that it takes a while before the effect of a BC will clean out of the body system. But if yor fertile and has been confirmed by your doctor then you should not worry. Let your reproductive system clean out the excess of the BC you were using .worrying too much can cause you not to get pregnant on time.

Best of luck

Answer 6

have you tryed regulating your hormones maybe you need to get a hormone detector from walmart if that isnt it go to a doc and see if you or your partner is not fertile also a woman can only get pregnant 3 days out of the month and if your partner has no querms about doing something during your monthly cycle then the first day of your monthy you are most fertile but as far as a sixteen year old it is because their hormones are kicked into hi gear and when are we most horny right befor our monthly so most likely she lost her verginaty right before her monthly cycle that is the most likely answer hunn..

Answer 7

I have thought about this - although when I was 16 I wasn't practicing safe sex and somehow I luckily did NOT get pregnant but I could've. I think it's just as much a question that the people who mistreat their children, abuse them or abandon them can all have as many kids as they like but the couples who really really would make excellent parents and want them so they can cherish them and give them a good life have a hard time conceiving!

Answer 8

Well for years I wanted a baby the doctor told me I couldn't get preg. because of medical issues. Well girl you did say your age but I'm 34. Now I'm 3 months. Your time will come.

Answer 9

when your 16 you dont worry about much..they just up and have sex with not a thought about "will i get pregnant.etc"....therefore they have no stress...

when you trying to conceive your tend to stress because your trying to do everything right...stress does a lot of things to our body therefore making it harder to conceive..thats why it looks so easy for all these teeny boopers to get pregnant they are not stressing and their bodies for the most part are free of all the chemicals and hormones that come from birth control that we as adult women have been using since we were teenagers ourselves...(or whatever time you started)....

its not fair but this is life.......

Answer 10

i got preg. at 16 and it was the toughest thing to happen to me. you just need to let time take its course and you willget there. after i had my daughter i had an infection and the dr.'s told me i had a very, very slim chance to have another. 3 kids later i have realized that everything works at it's own pace and for a reason. keep you spirits up.