is she a hor or not?

Question

my husbands best freinds wife has been cheating on him for over a year... First with his brother and now with someone elsa..

She was mailing this guy while he was in jail and when he got out they would spend lots of time together...
My husbands best friend now knows about her affair with the second guy, but not the first..
He through her out and she is now living with him.
I feel bad for my husbands best freind ... I know more then i have told him about her as she is my best freind and would confide in me everything..
I love my husband and I know that his best freind and him are very close, we share everything just about am afraid to tell him more of what i know in case it cause problems for her ...
But i feel am not being truthful to my man, but at the same time he tells his best freind **** could hit the fan???

Answer 1

Although this kind of behavior happens more than anyone would like to admit.
I sense that you and your husband are much too close to the wrong doing of your friends.
The value of true friendship is not so much to interfere with what may or may not be happening in a friends life but to be there for them when things fall apart.
By involving yourselves, you are entering a very touchy situation where you wont only risk losing a friend but creating enemies.
I suggest you two back yourselves away from the childish manner of your friends and allow them to walk through the situation alone, and be close enough that when things fall apart to offer your shoulder and understanding they will need when it all has ended.
I do not know what a hor is but if I am understanding this right you wanting to know if your friend is behaving like a prostitute - my answer is no, not unless she is charging for sexual encounters.
I would say by what you have stated your friend is merely a cog which is a small acting part of something moving - in which case would be a man cheating on his wife.
The real person to place blame is not the other woman (your friend) but the weak husband who isn't in love with his wife or he would not have fallen.

Answer 2

Keep your nose out of someone elses business. They all know enough about what is goin on. The friend isn't a stupid man he knows what's goin on. He just isn't willing to admit to it all yet. it will all come out in the wash in time. Don't be a busybody... that is the last thing you need is things turning on you and making you look like a total ***. You sit back don't worry about what Tom **** and Jane are doing and worry about your own house. Because in the end the more you mouth the more you get in trouble. Don't instigate or delegate... just keep out of it.

Answer 3

stay out of their troubles, u r not the one to tell him all the dirty things his wife did or has done, if u do ur husband's bestfriend is going to hate u becos he will think he knew all this and u never told him and ur bestfriend thats wife will also hate u for betraying her cos she's thinks u r her friend thats why she tells u everything, so just keep ur mouth shut and let them solve their own problems, all u can do is to say a prayer for both of them.

Answer 4

You need to stay out of it, the time will come when all of the truth comes out, you don't have to say anything.
She is out of the house now & your husbands friend dosen't need any more bad news.
You should also cut off any more communication with her.

Answer 5

Please make sure that it is not you under the garb of friendship.
Let us not pass judgement on any body's life without knowing the truth.

Answer 6

i think she is a **** and i feel sorry for her husband

Answer 7

I don't know if she is hot or cold. but for sure she is a ****.

Answer 8

she is the worst one i feel