im like in a situation where a friend of mine is being hypocrite(he spread out some rumors on me ...too long story) and i feel that another friend is backing him....Days before i could deal with this prob(like bear it in my mind) but now i dont know whats happening to me cuz i feel very depressed....
2006-06-29 23:34:32 · 7 answers · asked by rapstar 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Karma will bite him, just be a good person and stay strong. If they want to be petty and childish then let them, you're a better person. Don't get involved
2006-06-29 23:40:47 · answer #1 · answered by smsgreaves 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like many have said, please try to resolve the situation. Part of the reason why you are depressed is because you belly ache over all the uncertainties: what could be wrong, what could go wrong, is the friendship still worth it? etc.
Try taking them aside and work it out. If you don't like being alone, bring along a friend who is trustworthy and will know when and how to shut up so as not to make things worse.
At the end of the day, whether it leads to reconciliation or a big brouhaha, at least you will have tied that loose end and work on what's ahead because you KNOW the situation and can make a choice. It's so much better than being left hanging.
2006-06-30 07:09:35 · answer #2 · answered by Studier Alpha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should confront the situation, I know it may be hard because its your friend. Don't be nasty about it, but let them know you were hurt by spreading rumors and that a true friend wouldn't do that.
2006-06-30 06:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by missesc0bar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what is going on exactly, if two of your friends intently stabbed you in the back, then count your number of friends minus two. The world is out there and there are lots of new exciting, loyal people to meet. Always consider your friendship as a gift, if someone refuses it, u can still give it to someone else who will appreciate it.
2006-06-30 06:42:57 · answer #4 · answered by Hanan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get up early morning pray to HIM who gave life,
Eat good food full stomac and just enjoy the nature.
When ever your friends need to ask you or comment on you just don't give answer
just keep a good smile,
although they also like you havng hand and legs;
but don't do any wrong from your side
2006-06-30 07:02:12 · answer #5 · answered by mia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Human tendancy boss, dont worry...this is the reason gr8 people say have less friends, choose wisely...and dont give out all informations about yourself to anyone...keep something to yourself.
Dont be depressed..for people who dont care about you. Be happy that the rest still are with you..Thank God that He Showed you who are you your friends and who are not..you will feel blessed..
2006-06-30 07:17:54 · answer #6 · answered by Sabrina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont think about that situation leave everything to ur destiny
2006-06-30 06:38:02 · answer #7 · answered by kitu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋