ok i don't want him to b a b*tch but i think its ok for a man to cry (in the right situations of course). showin sensitivity doesn't make u a punk. Any other ladies feel the same?
2006-06-29 21:06:09 · 12 answers · asked by supa_fly64 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If feel the same galfriend.Bottling up sometimes destroys the person in turn destroying what the two of you have had.Letting flow of those drops sometimes heals the pain.Its ok to cry coz it gets rid of some toxic in your system.But i cant deal with someone who turns into a crybaby.
2006-06-29 21:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by Shosh-B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on the situation. If he's cryin about sumthin that I know is really buggin him... and he needs to let it out... then that's all good. I actually feel flattered that he'll show it in front of me and not anyone else.
But it really should be *very* rare. And I really wouldn't want him to be doin more than a little sniffling unless it was something REALLY serious... like someone died or something. Otherwise, there's no need for full-on bawling. Unless it's for God... then that's alright.
Overall though, he needs to be strong and helpin me when *I* wanna cry. Might sound selfish, but that's just the way it is. There are ways for a guy to show his sensitivity on a day to day basis w/o a pull-out-all-the-stops cry fest. It's in his eyes.
That's especially true cause there are some guys who have really been through a lot. And things that would break other people down just don't phase them.
But if it came down to it, I'd be understanding about my man crying. I wouldn't make him feel bad... I'd hold him and be there for him. If it was a common occurrence though, I'd get sick of it...
2006-06-30 04:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for most women a man cryin shows he is a mama's boy r a punk. but everyboby crys it's just a way of expressing your self. now what if u where caught cryin i know u would not want to be called a b****. and a boy is just like everyboby else. and plus if they don't let it out it will just build up. and that's not good
2006-06-30 04:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by Tori J. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as they don't turn on the water works every 5 minutes there's nothing wrong with a fella having a cry every now and then.We're all human.
2006-06-30 04:10:51 · answer #4 · answered by Tan B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem that women look at men as they are Greek heros frozen into their stone statues .. and they have to be handling every thing with no single mistake..
yes sometimes a man need to cry.. and the best woman who can handle this -with no shame- is his mother.. the only true love on earth...
2006-06-30 04:12:07 · answer #5 · answered by helix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Bottomline is they are still humans, capable of feeling pain and sorrow. Crying is natural for a grieving heart. It doesn't pull down honor or dignity or status, it even shows courage. ^_^
2006-06-30 04:31:33 · answer #6 · answered by enigma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dun really like man cry.. Coz i like to cry so if he also cry, it seems like 2 spoiled children cry together.. Lol
But if he cry in the right situation, i can understand.
2006-06-30 04:13:29 · answer #7 · answered by a V a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ok for a man to cry but i don't want to see or make my man cry. i love him so much that i don't want to see him in tears..
2006-06-30 09:10:42 · answer #8 · answered by --justME-- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its ok, it shows his true feelings,and that makes him a real man.
2006-06-30 04:11:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am with u , only in sensitive situations cz if he doesn't he will never be a human , i love sensitive men
2006-06-30 04:15:13 · answer #10 · answered by who k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋