I'm having problem to climax, sex always feels good and yes there's a lot of 4plays....I don't know why I can't reach that point most of the time, say maybe only 10% of the time that I do get "there".......I don't have a problem with the guy, sometimes he does make me c u m, but sometimes not, doesn't help even it goes for an hour.....but sometimes it happens fast like 10 minutes...I don't know how i did it...I used to find girl on top is easier , but not anymore....
I'm not totally upset as I enjoy other part of sex, but I'm not happy about it either......any other are like me? Is there anything I can do? I don't like the idea of taking medicine....Thanks for your help
2006-06-29 20:59:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Please don't tell me you can PERSONALLY help without giving advice, because I live too far from you anyway.
And please make sure your words are not filtered by yahoo, so I can read them, thanks again
2006-06-29 21:06:50 · update #1
You are not alone. This is common for a lot of women. There are a lot of things you can do about it. The first thing I would suggest is that you need to relax. It sounds like this is probably the problem. The pressure to orgasm is often the biggest obstacle to climaxing. Try to focus on the pleasure, not the end result. It might help to have a drink or two before sex so that you can feel more relaxed. Another thing you can do is make sure your man is doing the moves that work for you. You can try being on top, as that will give you more control. Or in the missionary position, have him slow down and move less so that you can move more and get the stimulation you need. In addition, ask your partner for some oral stimulation beforehand so that you are halfway there when the two of you start. One other thing I've found helpful is to turn the lights off. That really takes the pressure off. Good luck!
2006-06-29 21:13:23 · answer #1 · answered by Maggie 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How about you try to relax, and not focus on the orgasm and instead focus on how good you are feeling in the moment. Also, I recommend trying to masturbate and seeing if you can reach an orgasm by yourself without any toys or vibrators. If you can achieve an orgasm through this then I recommend you show your guy and may be you will be able to reach an orgasm.
2006-06-30 04:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by monavyas15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a toss. When ever I can't come, even though it might be a hot chick or something. A good all **** always does the trick. I think its habitual conditioning.
2006-06-30 04:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to learn to relax and enjoy !
Don't stress over it, that will make it worse, 'cause you are expecting to not finish.
2006-06-30 04:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by thearthound 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im no health teacher or anything but.... dont worry some girls have the same problem you do... 1 of my ex's said she had prety much the same problem n she said she almost never did it.. maybe try different positions...
2006-06-30 04:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOOD FOREPLAY HELPS, AND HAVING SEX DOGGIE STYLE IS SUPPOSED TO HELP WITH A WOMAN HAVING AN ORGASM. I ALSO THINK YOU ARE TO TENSE BY WORRING ABOUT WETHER OR NOT YOU ARE GETTING AN ORGASM.
2006-06-30 04:05:28 · answer #6 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Maybe these articles on love and relationships will help you...
2006-06-30 04:11:50 · answer #7 · answered by mrsm72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try using a vibrator or a **** ring(on him)... could help and wouldn't hurt to try. Good luck.
2006-06-30 04:02:16 · answer #8 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take extacy and drink lots of pine sol
2006-06-30 04:03:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-30 04:02:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋