we were seperated tryn to work things out she had a bad drug problem in the past while we were seperated i moved in with him for a week until i found reasons to belive he might be doing drugs besides what he told me about his past. i moved back in with my wife tryn to work things out again still going throught the divorce. she kicked me out then i find later he had been going to her job and seeing her they exchanged numbers went out a few times then left town together behine my back for 3 days . i found out was of course very angry . i found that he had told her id been cheating on her with 4/5 different women and that he was with me at one time when i did it.well then i found out that they had been sleeping with each other after he told her those things.now we are divorced she tells me she has feels and loves me but doesnt knwo what to do right and needs time..keep im mind becasue of all that happened our familys hate each other.we also have a 10 mo. girl 2gether w/w married 11/2 yr.
2006-06-29 20:27:17 · 6 answers · asked by babyboi6973 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
whoop your boys *** and forget about her. She isn't the only fish in the sea. if she really loves you she'll come back when she sees you with another woman. If she doesn't then oh well, everything happens for a reason. Whatever you do dint go back groveling at her feet, that will only make her feel important.
2006-06-29 20:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make few things clear to yourself avoiding too much details. Firstly, do u want her back in your life & live happily ever after ? Secondly, do u want to treat her back the thrash u got ? Or, U want to make her feel the same U feel for her ? Next, I request u to put aside the thoughts for your ex-friend for the time being, because, he is a 3rd person singular number in your (ought to be) close-knit family. My advice is, can u arrange a meeting with ur wife & ask her straight, that though u r not Mr. Perfect, U still want her back to the family & the emotional & social investments is causing problems to the kids & u r not bad enough either to overlook the matter.
2006-06-29 20:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let them be and find another person. I mean you deserve better, why back track with a cheater.
You need to just move on and thank god that you found this out before you invested more time into her and the relationship. Good Luck!
2006-06-29 21:16:58 · answer #3 · answered by sparkling_apple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello dummy...read what u wrote above, then come up with one good reason you would want either of those people back in your life! They are trash. Do you happen to live in a trailer park?
2006-06-29 20:54:04 · answer #4 · answered by butterfly9k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's messed up dude, why would you want to get in the middle of all that? Find a new lady and let those 2 have at it!
2006-06-29 20:33:11 · answer #5 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take him out....then ur back on top...u can even comfort her when she cries about it
2006-06-29 20:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋