Ok I'm 12 right and my friend is 14 and she has a brother who is 11 and he likes me more than a friend but i hate him. He constantly tries to talk to me and I usually have no other choice but to talk to him. He is really whiney and just weird. But a few days ago he just decided to barge right into my house totally unnoticed and I couldn't do anything about it. He said he was here for my sister and they played video games or whatever but he kept trying to persuade me to play with them. Finally I gave up and played with them but the question is HOW DO I GET RID OF HIM!!
2006-06-29 19:54:00 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Lovin♥ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I'm not good at being mean to people even if I hate them.
2006-06-29 19:59:33 · update #1
Hello, firstly ask yourself why do you hate him? Hate is a harsh word. Okay so your not romantically interested in him, he doesn't need to know that just yet. He obviously has a crush on you and in time that will change, concentrate on being a good friend and allowing yourself to get to know him, you may surprise yourself and actually have fun. when you are all grown up you will remember him and possibly giggle. He can't be too bad, a bit pushy perhaps but not bad. Just be yourself and be kind he can't help his feelings but you have nothing to loose by being a friend. Give yourself permission to get to know him even if you are not interested in him in that way. Life's too short and you can never have enough friends. Have fun while being nice to others.
2006-06-29 20:15:31 · answer #1 · answered by clarissa l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how old is your sister? Your best bet is to try and hook the two of them up. Tell him that he should try and go out with a girl more his age and that you are very flatered that he has a crush on you but you just don't think it would be cool if you dated your best friend's brother.
2006-06-30 03:19:21 · answer #2 · answered by Gangsta Geek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that u are not interested in him,and ask your younger sibling 2 go over his house.
2006-06-30 09:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by Nour 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this will sound selfish but really work on getting a boyfriend...what u then do is if he comes around make him kealousof u too and annoy him wit the fact that u have a boyfriend.
2006-06-30 03:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by Athleteirish 30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are only interested in being a friend . that you will talk to him as a FRIEND only . tell him that every time you see him if thats what it takes .
2006-06-30 03:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by moody1418 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you don't like hanging out with him and to stop talking to you.
2006-06-30 02:58:28 · answer #6 · answered by koopz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calmly tell him that you dont like him and that you dont want to talk to him. explain your reasoning calmly.
2006-06-30 03:01:01 · answer #7 · answered by adrian w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you're a lesbian, that'll shoot him down, and if it runs in his family.. you're set up with his older sister, and you can date her.
2006-06-30 03:15:27 · answer #8 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋