I like to watch women (magazines, DVD's) have sex. Would love to be with a woman, but love having sex with my husband! Is this weird? Is this disrespectful to my husband? Does anyone else out there feel this way?
2006-06-29 19:43:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let me emphasize- I love sex with my husband! He knows how to bring me to a climax. We have discussed this thing before and his take on it is that the right situation presented itself he would be okay with it, would like to watch. This is not the main question. The main question really is "Am I alone here, or do other women feel this way, too?"
2006-06-29 20:03:04 · update #1
Yes, I think we all feel this way whether we admit it or not. I fantasize about women all the time. My husband knows and likes me to tell him about it as a forplay. This works for me because it is a release of my thought. He thinks he would be ok with it if I really did it but I would have to tell him first. But, this goes for men too. If it came down to it I don't think I could. What I fantasize about is different from actually doing it. It is completely normal and I dont think you are gay.
2006-06-29 19:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by 46&2 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, it isn't strange. Many straight women do think about it. They just don't admit it.
Let's face it. The female body is beautiful. Women are wonderful creatures. Soft, feminine...different from men.
It's natural to wonder. So, no, you're not weird. Is it disrespectful to your husband? Hmmm, have you told him. It might turn him on. tee hee. Seriously, it isn't disrespectful unless you act upon your desires without his knowledge or presence or consent. (It is still infidelity no matter which sex you're with.)
I am straight, by the way, and very much in love with and faithful to my husband!
2006-06-29 19:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by hope03 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't feel this way. Either you are bi, or bi-curious. It's normal for some, not normal for others. I'm not sure if it's disrespectful to your husband or not, since I never was in that situation. I've never even thought of being with another woman.
2006-06-29 19:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you just have a strong sex drive, do whatever you fel confortable with, I'm sure you husband would love a threesome. Just be safe, healthy and happy. Do what comes naturally. Talk to your hubby about the feelings and maybe get into porn together.
2006-06-29 19:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by danac210 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can just asked for your husband to have a threesome. I'm sure your husband will be excited about it. But i think its really normal. Theres no one could deny that they never had a feeling like that.
2006-06-29 19:57:28 · answer #5 · answered by slamka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't unusual. Women just don't talk about it. And no, this isn't disrespectful to your husband. If he is an open guy, he may even find that a turn-on.
2006-06-29 20:29:35 · answer #6 · answered by dancing_queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way im a woman, i think im a sexy thang, and I think woman are gorgeous.........its so natural for woman to lean towards other woman, men love it, woman love it. We are beautiful nurturing creatures with beautiful bodies........YEA but holla if you love the Dick too! hahah.......its all good, I have dreams of getting down with ladies all the time.. its taboo and innocent and fun!
2006-06-29 19:47:30 · answer #7 · answered by MuffinPuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a natural curiousity. I have experienced with women, and it's hot. Women know what women like!
2006-06-30 04:24:37 · answer #8 · answered by tear streaked angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're definitely not the only one! Its called finding out you have bi tendencies after you've found THE ONE and married him. It happened to me too!
2006-06-29 19:46:04 · answer #9 · answered by Om Santi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's just that you want to experamint you're a bisexual which is cool because I am to and my boyfriend loves that because he thinks his fantasy might come true!
2006-06-29 19:48:53 · answer #10 · answered by Butterfly 13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋