my wife kicked me out again?

Question

This is the 4th time this year, im no angel , but i work hard, like to go out with mates 1night a week. should i just go for good

Answer 1

That is a question you and her should be asking each other, maybe with some qualified marriage counseling. However, chances are if you can't communicate on this issue, you'll keep having problems.
COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY!

Answer 2

Yoy dont say why.....do you hit her, abuse her, not give her any money for herself, cheat on her, not bathe????? Does your wife have a night out with the girls once a week; how often do you take her out. Have you asked her why she is chucking you out??? If you cannot resolve the problem b etween you, just forget the whole thing. Life is too short for an unhappy marriage, and your wife is clearly not happy with you. . If its the fourth time she has had to go this far because of you doing the same thing over and over again, youre just a loser anyway.

Answer 3

Why is she kicking you out? There much be a reason other than you going out with friends 1 night a week. You should talk to her and be honest with her - ask her to tell you why she is so upset and come to an agreement with her. You should try your hardest to work things out and make your marriage work.
You also need to make sure that you are giving your wife the attention she needs and she deserves. Your wife should come before anything.

Answer 4

Do u have programme for ur wife?or you just keep her in the house as a dummy?The problem in the marriages today is b/cs poeple are not willing to sacrifice.Ur wife is ur best friend,so why not involve her in ur outings? Ur working hard has no business with her . She married u not ur working hard. Try to give her time also,b/cs that is d problem.U have time for your work, and friends and no time for her.What of if the reverse becomes the case,how will u feel?U are already thinking defeat,make ur marriage work.

Answer 5

if you love her and you havent done anything wrong then yea shes just being a sassy ***. Otherwise if you love her, if it makes you cry to think of breaking up, give it some time, let her know you dont appreciate it, and maybe she has some feelings she needs to deal with. No reason to kick a gooid man out. Plus she should allow you to have guy time at least once a week, and you should take her out and make you and her time once a week. its important to have seperate hobbies, or days of self indulgance. Otherwise you feel smothered. Good luck buddY!

Answer 6

All depends on why she has kicked you out, if you've deserved this treatment, best you get down on your knees grovel and beg forgivness. she's your wife for God's sake, that was your promise as a husband to stay with her for better for worse, now if your just thinking of giving up..... well then you didnt deserve to even take any vows.
you'd have thought from the other 3 times you'd have learnt what you should and shouldn't be doing

Answer 7

Well it depends on her reason for kicking you out. Obviously there's problems if this is the 4th time this year and the year is only halfway over! If you're cheating, spare her anymore pain and leave now before she's dumb enough to take you back again. If you're not cheating, then ask her what she wants you to do, then try to do it!

Answer 8

I wouldn't be able live like that, if you are not smacking her around, and as you say only go out 1 night a week there could be a problem with her. Don't forget "fair weather" relationships never work

Answer 9

my ex hub used to 'walk' whenever things got hot, he did it no less than 7 times for 3 months at a time, so its back ot front, but i tell you now, its control and abusive, if you are doing no worng, find out, or next time, DONT GO BACK.

she knows you will come back, you're allowing her to treat you like this, dont be played with.
you're an adult, not a dog stuck in the garden for crapping on the sofa..find out WHY, or do you know?
maybe you are no angel, but neither is she, work at it, or end it.

Answer 10

instead of getting drunk take your mrs out once a week with you. Let her control how much you drink and you'll restrain yourself more, plus you'll be less likely to get kicked out. If she's doing this there must be a good reason!