why is it that in life ,people that u trust are the ones to stab u in the back? or is it part of creation
2006-06-29 19:30:35 · 10 answers · asked by real4u 2 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Other - General Health Care
If you have been stabbed in the back i am sooo sorry. Maybe the people you trust know you trust them so they go behind your back knowing you wouldnt suspect them of something.its not a part of creation nothing people do is a part of creation it is their own mind doing what they want it to.
2006-06-29 19:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by MizzQ-T 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not everyone that you trust will stab you in the back. You are just putting your trust in the wrong people. That is how we learn to discern who is trustworthy and who is not. Don't trust that person again, and watch for signs of others who act like they did. That should be a warning sign for you from now on. It is not a part of creation, but it is a part of gaining wisdom...knowing who you can trust. Growing and learning often bring painful lessons.
2006-06-30 02:37:50 · answer #2 · answered by Oblivia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its actually the over expectation we have on others which when goes negative we feel the stab! The creation was correct but the over confidence was at fault.
2006-06-30 02:39:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its u who is more culpable than the one dupes u... firstly never trust ppl as easily as it comes ur way.... take ur time.. coz thats not gonna change anything in a relation but only help u learn more about a person u r interested in. secondly,... when a time comes when that person assures u of his or her complete fidelity n then comes a time, when the cat is out of the bag n u r shattered... well, u cant do anything then but sulk n whine.. it's in human nature... so thats the bottom line which one should understand that no matter how much u trust u anyone, his human nature is always prevalent over anything in this world.
2006-06-30 02:39:31 · answer #4 · answered by lini v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not part of creation. It is the person in general. They made the choice and followed it through. It was of course the wrong one.
2006-06-30 02:35:02 · answer #5 · answered by Lore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because when you love and trust someone you will let them get away with more than anyone else and sometimes people start to take advantage of us. Not everyone and it is not right for them to do that but when it happens it is time to reevaluate your friendship with that person.
2006-06-30 02:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by rodeomommy1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you put too much trust in them and don't think that they might do that... but then you don't know them as well as you thought.
2006-06-30 02:36:02 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because we trust them the most. It hurts more when it is someone you care about.
2006-06-30 02:33:38 · answer #8 · answered by Gothic Martha™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give them knives to play with then they cant stab you
2006-06-30 07:28:30 · answer #9 · answered by pebblesandkara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just notice them more than others, thats all.
2006-07-02 23:44:30 · answer #10 · answered by tc_an_american 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋