Help Me Pleeeez?

Question

I am the second of four girls and I also have a stepbrother in my family. whenever my little sisters fight I'm ALWAYS the one to deal with them because my mom says " She can handle them better than I can." My older brother is always picking fights with me and I'll have to FIST FIGHT him can you believe that. the oldest sister just sits around all day on the computer listening to music and watching videos and complaining about how " I didnt eat nothin all day" just so she could eat more and she's sooooo anoying. How do I tell my sister nicely to just get the hell of my back. And how do I deal with the rest of the problems

Answer 1

Gee, you poor thing! It is very difficult situation to deal with and so many people around you. You just have to break from the crowd and make you own path in life. How about talk to your parents and take some classes in piano. The music will relax you and give you time with yourself, plus you just can put the earpiece and play for yourself and let your brother and sisters fight between themselves.
Hey it's going to be so good for you believe me! For your confidents it's so good, plus make you to meet new people out of the family circle. Good luck!

Answer 2

Wow you sound like you're the meat in the sandwich there
Just get away from the lot of them and join a sporting group
or other and be YOU for a while.
Let everyone else have a turn working out the family issues

You are so young to be having these issues.

Go and ENJOY yourself

Mother of three teenagers

Answer 3

Try to find out what she finds interesting, then give her suggestions on having something worthwhile to do that is related to the thing she likes doing.

Adopt a healthy lifestyle. Go jogging or something and eat right. If she sees you making progress at being fit (and attracting boys in the process,) maybe she'll follow suit.

As for your brother, just ignore him. Boys thrive on teasing those who allow themselves to be teased. Appear uninterested in what he says. If he sees you reacting to his teasing, he will keep doing it. If he sees no reaction- he will probably leave you alone and be with his friends.

Answer 4

First, tell your mother that she had the kids so she can deal with them, they are not your problem, tell her you don't mind helping but you would like to enjoy your childhood also. second, tell your mother if she doesn't do something about the fist fighting you are going to call the cops, they will put him in juvie. it is not ok to fist fight with anyone especially with your siblings!

Answer 5

well i'm always in fist fights with my younger brother and i just tell my older brother straight up when he gets on my nerves and believe me he gets on my nerves a lot and no offense or nuttin but it sounds like ur older sister needs to get a life. maybe since it sounds like shes hurting ur feelings maybe u should do the same to her cuz it kinda sounds like she deserves it.

Answer 6

firstly, complain loud and long to your parents that they must teach your brother not to raise his fists to you.
that is the priority.
forget your older sister. how she lives is not your concern unless she picks on you.
I suggest that you simply let your younger sisters fight. It isn't your problem.

Answer 7

I think you should print off what you wrote here, and take it to your parents and have them decide what you should do.

Answer 8

put your life first... be happy that your mom thinks you r so responsible but tell her that you have to take care of yourself

Answer 9

Everything will be ok in the end. And if it's not ok... then it's not the end.

Answer 10

go to sleep