When dating a guy who is much older than u, what kind of treatment do u think he can give u. Do u expect him to be possesive, harsh or very caring and will he treat u with utmost importance. Is it advisable to date somebody older than u.
2006-06-29 18:53:28 · 8 answers · asked by G u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
when you date a guy that is much older then you..i guess it depends on his maturity level..how mature he will be..because you can run into an older guy..by age..but he could be more immature then you..then again he can be wayyyy on another level and be more mature then you're ...he could still play with video games and want to be a player or playboi still and want to play around and not be serious about any kind of relationships then again he could be too serious and want to be married..and he may be looking for something..if i was you i would be carefull..ask yourself what can i offer him?! what are his intentions with me?! are they good or bad?! in a way i think older guys talk to younger girls because they could take advantage of them..especially if a female is insecure and an older nice looking guy comes along and tells her all the right things shes allways wanted to hear..but for your best interested i hope its good intentins this older guys has for you..he knows wayyy more then you..depending on where hes at in his life and the things hes experienced and how much older he is from you..you have to look at everything...negative and positive..because just think why is he talking to you when he could be talking to somene his age? something isnt right?! and if you talk to him..hes going to put you on a whole nother level..i wish you would stated your age..it would of helped me answer your Q. he might teach you all kinds of things..are you ready? mentally? physically? everything is that what you want?! ask him what does he want and ask yourself what do you want?! are they the same things? it depends on the guy if he is possesive, harsh or caring..guys can be many different things..monday he can be possessive..wed..he can be harsh and by friday night he can be caring..i just think you need t be carful babygurl..guys are alot on games..and i think he needs to findsmeone his own age..i dont want you to regret anything..so think things through befre you take any further steps..think about what you want..what you want from him?! how is he treating you? is he respecting you? being nice to yuo? dont be blind to that..all that could change also..people change..it changes when you get to knowsmeone..they could only put a front up for so long..next month he could be someone else..and you would be like (man who is this guy..hes not the same guy i knew)..trust me i know...stick to your age range..dont make yourself grow up any faster then lifes taking you...let nature take its coourse...dont speed up the process because you could never change anything ..and you dnt want to live life with regrets either..think about it! hope i helped! good luck!
2006-06-29 19:05:03 · answer #1 · answered by Calendar_Model 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i always dated older or same age as me, but thats just personal choice. i dont think that age really has anything to do with how compatible u are in a relationship..its just the way u mix and the type of person the other is...if a person is possesive or caring at 40, chances are its a character trait that's been there all along.
2006-06-29 18:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by mtlfearie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I am coming at you with a ton of experience under my belt on this issue. And in hindsight - RUN LIKE HELL!!!
I don't know how old this guy is, but let me tell you the aging curve of an older man is very sudden. One minute he is in his late 40's, early 50's, healthy as a horse, the next minute he's on 7 daily medications to keep his old @ss alive.
The sex goes downhill fast, as does the money. And in the midst of it all, so do your childbearing years. Get out now, before it's too late. You will regret it, trust me.
2006-06-29 18:59:59 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_leaf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on person to person experience, as every guy does not possess the same qualities or disqualities the other one have.
2006-06-29 18:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We would need to know a bit more about his personality your agaes and about you before you can get a good advisable answer
2006-06-29 18:55:43 · answer #5 · answered by BRATS MOM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are dating me, I would treat you like a queen...or rather a princess...but not all of us are kingly out here so beware and know who you are with before you take off with them....
wOrd
2006-06-29 18:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by Mad Max 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly are older you know the answer.
2006-06-29 18:56:47 · answer #7 · answered by driver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should. In my experience they are usually less possessive
2006-06-29 18:59:48 · answer #8 · answered by Justcurious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋