2006-06-29 18:31:46 · 31 answers · asked by prodigy 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
It is the best idea there is.
2006-06-29 18:34:02 · answer #1 · answered by J T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you want to hear the truth or what's right?
What's right is it should be kept for marriage. Pre-marital sex is something not acceptable in most religions. To those who are religious, it is a taboo to do it. It is also against morals.
Now, the truth, what I personally think. I'm not a religious person and I dont think sex should be kept for marriage as long as contraceptives are used or men are willing to take the responsibility should the woman get pregnant. It is not necessary to keep it for marriage.
2006-06-29 18:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by whitelighter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is entirely up to the person. It is a fine idea, so is having sex responsibly. It is all up to your own tastes.
Ok this is probably goign to start a flame war, but I had to edit after I saw the post of one of the folks above me who mentioned that waiting is what God asked us to do. I dont believe God asked us to wait for marriage to have sex. Alot of the apostles had concubines, which is not a wife. Some also had wives, as well as concubines. I am not up for multiple relationships at a time, that's not my point, never have been, hard enough to keep one going well, I guess i just hate the blanket "God card." I think it's great if your morals require you to wait until you are married. Lord knows, it is safer.
I apologize if I offended anyone. I really do. This is a place for sharing our opinions and as such you are free to share an opinion on my views and me. I'm strong enough to take that. Thanks.
2006-06-29 18:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by Michael E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well we are all eventually going to get married at some point. and we all want that marriage to last. well let me explain what happens if youve had premarital sex. sex is supposed to be special right? well if you get used to something special it doesnt feel special anymore after a while. now lets say you had tons of sex before you got married. now how special are you going to feel about it since youre not really too excited by it that much anymore? for you youre just banging another chick and youre not aloud to do anyone else anymore because youre married. and besides youll be comparing your wife to everyone else you messed with. on the other hand you can keep you private in your pants and whne you get married youll have something special that only the two of you share and no one else.
2006-06-29 18:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by Jacob F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Our materialistic culture is hell bent on identifying things of age to be valuable. In this case, the idea goes "if I wait, it will be better" (aka more valuable). I argue that just because something is old does not make it better. An old car that doesn't run is not functional, an older person may also not be functional. The teen years are a kind of built-in social mechanism for exploration and assuming that waiting for a social (or religious) construct will make that more valuable is foolish. While it may "mean" more, it doesn't mean that it will BE better. - practice makes more pleasureable. (safely)
2006-06-29 18:40:17 · answer #5 · answered by in8evil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I support that 100%..b/c some ppl do it..b/c they think they're in love and that they'll always be with that person- then why not wait...if they're always going to be there- when u get married..it's suppose to be for life- so it's the best idea..my sister lost her virginity at 15 and the guy broke up with her..n she got sooo depressed..i never want 2 go through that
2006-06-29 18:38:04 · answer #6 · answered by 1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me, as long as I'm in love and there are plans for the future with the relationship! I'd have sex ,but it would have to be protected sex! That's the most important thing!
2006-06-29 18:38:44 · answer #7 · answered by Jazzy J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the best -first way to cultured world .Any one having sex at any time will not find it decent.That is the reason it is kept for marriage.But now a days it is not followed.
2006-06-29 18:36:56 · answer #8 · answered by haisweety_fun 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people think you are not kool but i dont listen to them and all thier crap.even though the temptation is there,i made a promise to my self that i would never have sex until marriage and i meant it!....you chose the right path and you should follow it,dont listen to the bad influences from your friends.keep your virginity!you will never regret it and let only your wife enjoy your property ok.
2006-06-29 18:39:31 · answer #9 · answered by ♥D@t_bLaSiaN♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in today's scenario sex can't be kept in the closet. with so many women coming out in the open the chances of sparks flying and people getting entwined are much-much more than before. morals are low now and people seek out for more partners.
2006-06-29 18:38:55 · answer #10 · answered by relaxplease2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I waited for my knight until I was 24...because I knew it was the right thing to do..
then I gave up..
guys don't care anyway and there's no physical evidence that prooves they waited too. even the one who took my viginity didnt believe it was my first, so what's the point?
If they dont wait, why should girls?
2006-06-29 18:37:07 · answer #11 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋