i am getting on my wife nerves?

Question

my fiance is pregnant and i want to let her know how much i love her every second. we don't see each other much so i try to give her my full attention when i get around her, but it gets on her nerves when i want to hold her rub her stomach etc. how do i show her i love her and give her my attention without upsetting her. she means the world to me and i want to give her my all

Answer 1

My sweet angel,you are my sunshine,but sometimes you take it too far.I nevr mind you loving or hugging me.Sometimes you push yourself into the way of things that I am trying to do.Give me a little space ok? I just need for you to understand that I am already carrying two,I can't deal with you hanging all over me too.(not all the time)I love you and that won't change,but everyone needs their space.

Answer 2

I myself am 6 months pregnant. My fiance also gets on my nerves ALOT. We are alot like the two of you. I worry alot about the pregnancy, bills, and getting things done. Persoanlly I would rather have you help me with the trash, vaccuming, making dinner....whatever it is that needs to be done. And when its all done... then love on me. Women have a tendency to put themselves last, and if there are things that need to be done or other kids to care for, the last thing we think of is comforting ourselves. So look around and try to find ways that you can help her get things taken care of first, then give her all the loving and kissing she can tolerate. Another thing...if she is worrying about anything at all make sure you reassure her that it will be ok...no matter what, you guys will work it out. Stress will consume her mind and therefore not allow her to receive the attention she deserves....if you releive the worries, even for a little while, she'll calm down and allow your affection. Good Luck :-)

Answer 3

It's admirable that you wish to show your love as much as you do, but when a woman is in the midst of a pregnancy, the hormonal chaos that she is going through is difficult for men to understand. I'm sure she loves you dearly, and wishes that she could express it better, but woman as a whole are in turmoil over the change in their physical appearance and the anxiety of the ramifications associated with bringing a child into your life. All can advise is that you continue to be supportive and do not take offense to her rebukes of your affection. She needs you more than you know, but unfortunately may not have the ability to accurately respond to you kindness. Give her some space and allow her to come to you for that support. Just let her know that you are there for her should she need you, and that your love is patient and kind and is willing to be what it she needs.All she need do is just ask

Answer 4

During pregnancy womens hormones go crazy she may not feel comfortable being touch while she is pregnant. You should be asking her what she think you should do to show her that you love and care for her. Maybe try a back rub or foot rub. Talk to her about how she is feeling see if there is something you can do for her. Good Luck!!

Answer 5

It is probably the hormones that are making her irritable. The best thing you can do is to give her her space and don't be hurt or look or act hurt. Just smile and back off. Give her some time. Let her know you are there if she needs you, but don't smother her.

Good luck and congratulations. It's nice to see a man so devoted. She'll appreciate it some day, but right now she is probably overwhelmed.

Answer 6

When a woman is pregnant, she is more sensitive. She may just want to be left Alon. Don't take it personal, but maybe your touching her is not welcome at this point. Women can be moody during pregnancy and not want their man to be so affectionate, but it isn't anything that you are doing wrong. It is just part of the pregnancy.

If you want to show her that you love her, you should actually ask her what you can do for her. Maybe she would like to be shown love in a different way. Making her something to eat, doing some chores for her, that kind of thing. Be considerate of her and understanding.

Answer 7

If you think she's in one of those "moods" just sit in the same room with her. I was like that with my husband when I was pregnant, I wanted to spend time with him, but I was getting annoyed so easily it was hard. Just be there for her, but give her some space when you think she needs it. Rub her feet, fix her dinner, all that good stuff. When I was pregnant, I didn't want to be touched, and I got really pissed off if my husband offered to help me get up and things. It's just hormones, it might be a week from now, but she'll realize you're just wanting to be there for her. Congrats on the baby, hang in there, everything will work out.

Answer 8

This is extremely sweet of you. Your definetely not most guys. She's very lucky to have you. You can keep telling her how much you love her b/c after she's had your baby her hormones will get back to normal and she can never say you were'nt there for her.Just maybe try to give her a little more space then you normally would.Your going to make a great father soon. good luck

Answer 9

sometimes just the way you smell can set her off...dude welcome to pregnancy..this is why they say the man goes through pregnancy as well " we were pregnant" well believe me...you WEREN'T until you deliver...but with all the head and emotional issues u will deal with..it isn't far off...girls have no idea how much those hormones mess them up and they are VERY irrational and whatever you thought was working or making sense..just throw it all out the window..the other day my wife wanted a turtle brownie, a coke and a mashed potato bowl at KFC...STOP WORRYING LADIES....she got home ate it and...threw it all up..lovely...never mind that the KFC was only accepting cash at the moment, and KFC as a Pepsi owned restaurant DOES NOT HAVE COKE...so it was a runaround...all in ordr for her to throw it all up in the end...ahh pregnancy...what an adventure...

Answer 10

Give the woman some room to breathe. If you want to show your love, make her dinner, or clean the bathroom, do something nice for her. She will appreciate that more than any stomach rub.