I've been friends with Ami for almost 15 years. Her and I met Dan 3 years ago. They hooked up. Everything was grand ole grand ole. However I stopped talking with both of them for 8 months over a fued she and I had. Dan im'd me one day about 5 months ago and he confessed his feelings for me. I intern spilled mine as well which I NEVER PLANNED. For a couple months we talked online b4 I began talking with Ami again. Things between them were not good for the next few months and he broke it off with her three weeks ago. However tomorrow is the final cut off where it is gonna be BAD. I need to tell her about our feelings and asap. The day after tomorrow I want to tell her but need all the help I can with what to say to not make her want to kill herself, hate me, hate the world and everything else. Please give me any words of advice anyone!
2006-06-29 18:13:55 · 8 answers · asked by zap42o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't do it. He is not worth it, i can tell right now. He was cheating with you and he will do it again. He will not trust you either because you cheated with him. This doesn t make for a good relationship. Better to cool things off and if after a year or so you feel the same. maybe. But this time, it is better to do what is right and good and correct etc...... for your own self.
2006-06-29 18:27:47 · answer #1 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, well if you tell her, are you prepared to lose contact with her? It's going to happen regardless. Also, is Dan worth it? You do realize that he was basically cheating on her and was ok with that. So he could do it to you. Be careful girl. Figure out whose more important.
2006-06-30 01:16:44 · answer #2 · answered by Kitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um.. First you have to be strong enough to tell her in person and also gotta be careful not to break her heart because it will be really hard for her. I think you should ask her first about her feelings toward him and then try to choosing your words carefully. Good luck!!
2006-06-30 07:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of al do you even know if it is love or lust? love: patient, slow, caring, you think of the other persons feelings, you want more then just sex, you would die for this person
lust: fast, impatient, like fire, sexual
if you do really love him thn talk to your friend and make her see that and hopefully she will undrstand
2006-06-30 01:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by kiss the cook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell her anything about you and Dan!!! Why would you have to tell her anything at all about your life?
2006-06-30 01:19:18 · answer #5 · answered by tigerlilly4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest and do it in person, you only have one life to live
2006-06-30 01:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by evian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her to your and her x-boyfriend's wedding
2006-06-30 01:19:52 · answer #7 · answered by Glen H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very carefully.
2006-06-30 01:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by brewnomad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋