Me and boyfriend have been going out for about 6 months. So far the relationship has been okay so far. The main thing I hate about our relationship is the calling issue. Ever since we started going out I have basically been the way calling all the time just to see whats up. It's like if i dont call him then basically we dont talk. One time I actually stop calling him for a couple days to see how many days it would take him to call me. IT TOOK HIM 6 DAYZ!! I called him bout 5 days ago and left a message for him to call me back and he still hasnt called. Plenty of times he also told me he was going to see me on my lunch break while he was a no call no show. I also texted him one day asking him did he want to chill becuz I was off and he never wrote back.So I'm ready to end this relationship asap because he's just a waste of my percious time,and I dont have time for games at all. I just would like to know what would you do in this situation? Has this ever happened to you?
2006-06-29 18:03:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
It sounds like the relationship is already over to me. It takes 2 people to be in a relationship and it doesn't sound like he is a participant at all. I would move on and find someone who adores you.
2006-06-29 18:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by sunshyn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you are having the same problem that i faced last time.Well, he told me that he is busy and don't want to be disturb.He did promised me few times to meet me up but yet he didn't turn up and he never even inform me and he switch off his hand phone.if I'm angry he don't even bother to take initiative to call me.He always said i love you but it just the word but no action.This is really piss me off.later on, i found out that one of my colleague who happened to be his best friend and his housemate.Guess what.He don't like that we are together and he keep creating all the stupid stories until both of us keep fighting.This is really hurt me so much for i really love him so much.I have sacrificed so much for him.I'm Chinese and he is Malay.Well, later on, we broke up.Its about two months now.Yeah, I'm pretty hurt and not really recovered yet.I learn my lesson and i wont accept any guy if they are not same race with him.they are sucker.never appreciate you.keep giving you empty promises.try to act macho and gentleman.cheating!!he gave you all the nice reasons just to cover him up and show that he is gentleman.that is even more suck!!!!well, don't worry, not only you are facing that problem.
Dump him and find another guy.he is not worth for you.Don't torture yourself.He don't appreciate you is his lost.Don't waste such time because of him.You can find someone better thanhim.If now, he start to behave in that ways, and if you continue, you put yourself into trouble.Get out from that situation before he dump you.
2006-06-30 01:13:01 · answer #2 · answered by kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i'd say he's probably just not into the whole correspondence thing. but if you figure out how to make him remember a date and how to really, truly communicate with him then you'll solve your problem and also learn more about him by talking to him. my bf and i stay up late to IM and what always happens is that his baseball or something ruins the scheduling so we haven't gotten to date yet. at least u see this guy! oh well, good luck to you. i know you can make the right choice by yourself in the end, even if it's guided by answers from us.
2006-06-30 01:08:43 · answer #3 · answered by sofiaharriett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl i had the same problem with my boo and we been together 8 months and then i got tired of it so i was like look u need to call me sometimes because i call u all the time and every since then he makes it his bizness to call me.Girl u need to tell him whats on ur mind don't hold back and if u don't like the things that he tell u then brake up with him.
2006-06-30 02:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by damn_that_chick_thick17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its funny you brought this up because i think im in the same situation. my boyfriend that ive been seeing for 8 months now his phone just broke monday and ordered a new one and just got it in today. i spoke to him maybe for like 5 min. total since monday on the phone, usually i text or call him after i get out of work , etc. i did see him mon, and wed. tho but i wounder if i dont call him will he call me? i was thinking of trying it out . infact he called me once today to tell me his phone is working and said hes gotta go his friends was over. its now 1:10 and he didnt call me to say goddnite and i am so mad.
sorry for the long message but to get back to your question
you should dumb him if he cant put 50% into the relationship dumb him like a bad habit hun
2006-06-30 01:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by lovesugarkisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1- talk to him about it first.
2- dump him.
i've been through this before. guys who don't call are not worth the time. it's almost like having a one-sided relationship, where you call him all the time and you have to ask to hang out and all that, and they NEVER do that. find someone new and better.
2006-06-30 01:07:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are mistaking a 'game' for being a bloke... Blokes don't need to text or call all the time...
Turn this into a 'postive' and use this extra time as bonus time to brush up on your cooking and ironing skills...
Chill and he'll come. We always do!!
2006-06-30 01:12:18 · answer #7 · answered by jamingeels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was in this situation try to determine if you really like him and if you do talk to him about your issues and if it dont work out right then break it off but untill you talk dont end it
2006-06-30 01:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would before u break up just sit down and talk it out because you may never know it may turn out he was busy ?
2006-06-30 01:31:26 · answer #9 · answered by lloydbanks1nonly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this has happened to me and trust me he isnt worth your time .. Brake up with him ....
~Ashley
2006-06-30 01:37:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋