I've never had an orgasm before, my husband gets mad, why do you think that is? He's doing a good job though

Answer 1

I don't orgasm unless my husband or myself rub my clitoris. Maybe you could try having him play with you during intercourse. Good Luck

Answer 2

This can be a tricky question. Are you telling your husband what you need to orgasm? Second is he doing it? I've had women that could orgasm with just having their clit rubbed I have women that rubbing the clit only felt good but to orgasm they needed penetration. I have some that needed both. I would say masturbate and find out whats get you off. once you know yourself then you can tell your husband what you need. If he is a good husband he should be more than willing to do what it takes to give you an orgasm. Its out there and its yours now go get it

Answer 3

Men get upset because they think your orgasm is an indicator of their sexual performance. They don't get that for women orgasm isn't purely a physical thing. One thing that might help is for you to explore yourself. Find out on your own what works, then show him how to do it. Try different positions and locations. Or you could also try adult toys. I think the main thing is that some women don't want to feel like they are out of control, they don't relax enough to just let it happen. Or it could be a matter of trust. Maybe there are other issues in the relationship that need to be resolved.

Answer 4

First off you need to be comfortable with your body and know how you achieve orgasm best. Do you masturbate? You should! Tell your husband to chill for a bit! Get to know your own body, know what works for you! Once you can give yourself a fufilling orgasm, then you can worry about him! First off, you have to be relaxed!!! shower, shave, lotion up! Whatever you have to do to feel sexy in your own skin! Let the tensions go, forget the bills and the kids and the drycleaning and concentrate on your pleasure!!! Then tell him what to do and how to do it! If he sincerely wantes to pleasure you he'll let his ego subside and listen to what you have to say about how you feel good. If your really worried about his manhood, just moan a little louder, breath a little heavier when hes doing it right and quiet down when hes doing something thats not working for you. He'll get it! Sounds like he's got the tallent, you just need to work on yourself, then point him in the right direction!! Good Luck!!!

Answer 5

Its the real test of being a man! If he can't bring you to an orgasm he is not doing a good job!

Answer 6

I don't know if you like oral sex but that's a great way to have an orgasm. If you like clitoral stimulation than get your husband to perform oral sex and suck on your clitoris tight. While he's doing that tell him to stroke it with his tongue and you relax and than you should have a great orgasm. I love the way that feels and I hope it will work for you so give it a try.

Answer 7

It's not directed at you, he's just frustrated.

But you should practice orgasming through masturbation. Many women need to practice orgasm or they dont' really know how to get there.

Answer 8

He feels like he should be "man enough" to give you an orgasm, but for some women like you, it just takes time and practice, so he shouldn't feel bad. Have you ever tried oral sex? That just might do the trick for you. :)

Answer 9

Can you achieve orgasm from masturbating?

if not, it might be a psychological problem.

Your husband just wants to be able to satisfy you. by not orgasming, you make him feel like he is inadequate.

Answer 10

not all women get orgasms from vaginal sex. try the clitorus.. or get a virator and hold on it while you have sex. also if he fingers you.. as him to put his finger in nail down and gentle.. on the top of the hole.. rub in and out. thats the gspot