hi frnds, i m 27 year old guy. i love my girl frns very much. we love each other from last 5 years. now some guy came in her life and she fall in love with him.she still love me too. she tottaly confused about what to do.? from my end i still love her and want to merry her. i cant live without her i cant emagine my life without her. she know every thing about my feelings.and still she fall in love with some other guy after 5 long loving years.she broke my faith not only in her but for all female kind. sometimes i think all females are Betrayer. Now i m preparing for end my life. Tell me what to do ?
2006-06-29 17:41:50 · 16 answers · asked by jack b 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
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2006-06-29 17:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by Phi nu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd back off and let things cool down, don;t make a decision until you can think rationally again. Looks like you both need some time. Chances are she was infatuated because he's was new & different, but not necessarily someone she'd want on the long-term.
You get to decide if you can live with this. If she's willing to get back together, you need to have a good solid talk about why she cheated, and what's going to happen if she runs accross someone else who's new & interesting.
If I love someone, I want them to be happy, and if that means not being with me, that hurts, but I'd rather they be happy and somewhere else than with me and miserable.
I've had plenty of relationships and I never cheated on a boyfriend. I have one rule: If they find someone else, I leave. Period. They're free to do as they like, and I am free to remove myself from it.
If someone wanted to continue the relationship I had to think about how often I would have to deal with this behavior, and the extreme risks associated with it(STDs, which about 1 in 5 people have).
Only once did I take one back and it was because he asked, I couldn't imagine being with anyone better. We're still together.
2006-06-30 01:08:44 · answer #2 · answered by Roadpizza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I know your pain. But the fact is, you are responsible for your own happiness, not her, and you have to love yourself before she can, which may be where the confusion is coming from. You are dependent, not betrayed. She'll love you if you can get back in touch with your qualities that first got you there, and believe in yourself, and show confidence in yourself, even if you don't have it yet. More importantly, go through this struggle without ending your life, work to believe in yourself. Even if the relationship doesn't work out, you'll be a more awesome man, and you'll be blessed with a less confused woman.
2006-06-30 00:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by scottyxlr8r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost NO woman is ever worth ending your life over. Second just because she has feelings for him doesn't mean anything. Besides this will give you a chance to see what you have been missing. Another if she leaves you for him eventually Karma comes around she will end up leaving him or he will always wonder what she's up to- No trust.
Go out have fun enjoy life. You never know you may just find your soul mate.
2006-06-30 00:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by wicked jester 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, sorry about the other dude yo. Well try to steal her back. Not literally just like her heart. Make her feel that you were the one for her and vice versa. Make her realize that you love her. You also said that she still loves you too. Try to make her realize also that she loves you too. Try to make it seem like you love her more and i'm sure you probably do . Well i hope you get you girl back. Hope I helped.
2006-06-30 00:48:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, don't kill yourself over a woman. If she cheated on you, drop her. You will recover. Spend a little time for yourself, have some fun and she'll be out of your mind in no time.
2006-06-30 00:46:00 · answer #6 · answered by Joe M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is simple. You have been together for 5years and she doesn't have a ring on her finger yet?! No wonder she is looking else where.... you are not providing her with stability.
2006-06-30 00:46:44 · answer #7 · answered by Jenni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uuummmmm, are you perfect? does everything you do represent all men? is she perfect? do you want to be with someone who is at least mentally cheating on you? are you going to end your life for someone like that???
only you know the situation, no one here can tell you what to do. get off your 'she hurt me' pedistal and talk to her. maybe you will be together, maybe not.
2006-06-30 00:48:36 · answer #8 · answered by onlylove41 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont end your life
even though some women are evil, doesnt mean they all are
remember, just because she doesnt leave you doesnt mean God doesnt love you
and dont become gay
maybe church will hold the right woman for you
2006-06-30 00:46:23 · answer #9 · answered by 神は生きている 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on .. leave the past and try to live the present without the past ..
2006-07-07 11:06:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋