2006-06-29 17:08:58 · 16 answers · asked by angel_cook123 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Ultimately it is your decision. Don't keep a baby because of him, and don't hide it because of your mom. And don't forget about the possibility of adoption. There are always families who can't have children of their own who would love to adopt.
2006-06-29 17:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by Andrew T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First take a test to confirm that you are pregnant. If the test comes back positive then approach your mom and tell her that you need to talk. Tell her to try and stay calm and that you think its best that you let her know what's goin on. If you don't tell her it will only make things worse. Tell her the news and be sure to let her know the guy will support you and what plans you have made if any. If you show her you are well prepared and have a plan for this baby she may not take it as hard. I'm sure she will react. Just be prepared for whatever she may try to throw (not literally) at you. You know your mother better than I do you should have a pretty good idea of how it will go. However, if you can't get yourself to tell her on your own turn to a close relative or friend your mother knows. If they are understanding talk to them about it first. They may be willing to tell her the news for you or be there with you when you tell your mom the news. It may go a lot smoother if someone is there with you or if someone tells her for you. It'll give her time to let the idea sink in. Whatever you decide to do, Good luck.
2006-06-29 17:35:09 · answer #2 · answered by *Michelle* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her now. Come clean with the details of everything and make sure the parents of the baby's father knows of the situation as well. You can't hide this for too long from your folk, sooner or later they're gonna be wondering why their precious daughter is growing fatter. Tell em' now, it's hard but I will only get worse if you keep this a secret. Imagine, what if the father of the child decides to split. What then..?!
2006-06-29 17:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, its a good thing the guy does want a baby, since most guys would leave their girls if they are pregnant. Anyways, you need to gather up your courage and talk to your mom. Remember that she is your mother and she should understand all your problems no matter how big they are.
2006-06-29 17:53:32 · answer #4 · answered by thatonegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all you need to find out if you are or not, second of all you were mature enough to have sex, third of all you seem young to me I believe that you are not mature enough but hey thats just my opinion just next time rap it up which gives you better results you lucky you might be pregnant instead of having an STD. I do believe you should tell your mother , you should not keep it from her im sure she'll understand you and the decision you'll decide to take. good luck girl
2006-06-29 17:17:34 · answer #5 · answered by Yomo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should think about this before you have sex. Stop irresponsible sex and you wouldn't have this concern. Get married when you're repsonsible. Otherwise if you are pregnant give the baby to adoption of two parents who can give the baby the love and attention he needs. Grow up.
2006-06-29 17:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as i teenager i know the scary thought of talkin 2 ur mom about sex...my mom sat me down when i was like 12 and told me that a mom might get pissed off if u were 2 end up pregnet but a mom wants to know and will help you....talk 2 her about it.....and if u arent pregnet...i suggest talkin 2 her about birtch control next...just to be safe
2006-06-29 17:12:55 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have experienced the same thing, not married and pregnant and afraid to tell mom. tell her, yes she will be upset in the begining, but the more you put it off the worse it gets. hang in there, it may take a while, as time goes on, it will get better, but once she sees that baby everything will be okay.......my parents are my sons biggest fan and he's 11
good luck
2006-06-29 17:17:53 · answer #8 · answered by fred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mom be honest, they are there for you to help you get through the toughest times in life. Don't worry about her being or mad or getting in trouble. She will be upset a little but you guys will get through this together.
2006-06-29 17:13:18 · answer #9 · answered by pretty_comanche_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you anyway, if you are very young, you should have the baby and give it up for adoption. I doubt very seriously if you can take care of it properly. Birth control, use it next time.
2006-06-29 17:13:31 · answer #10 · answered by qtee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋