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My boyfriend and I got in a fight, and the charges against him are serious felonies, including kidnapping, assault, aggravated burglury, and menacing. I made a statement of what happened to the police and they decided on what the charges should be. I was not aware of how serious these things were and how much time he could get in prison. Since he's been in jail, i have reconsidered my statement and would like him to be released. he has not gone to court yet, but the prosecutor told me there is nothing i can do until we go to court. I dont know what to do in the mean time to help get him released and work on dropping the charges. I have written another statement to the prosecutor describing my changed feelings, but i do not want the court to think that i lied to them in any way. I do not want to incriminate myself.

2006-06-29 16:42:57 · 9 answers · asked by jaimeeclark7 1 in Politics & Government Other - Politics & Government

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The truth is that whether you drop the charges or not, the prosecutor still makes the ultimate decision whether or not the state wants to press charges. This may be totally out of your hands...particularly if he committed some of these offenses against others. Even if you don't want to testify, if you get subpoenaed, you better show up and whatever you do, do not perjure yourself!

2006-06-29 16:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by ilse72 7 · 5 0

As the victim in a criminal case, the charges are not yours to drop. Only the District Attorney or the Assistant District Attorney, can charge a defendant in a criminal case, or drop charges in a criminal case. It is the People vs. the defendant, not you, even thought the crime was committed against you. If you really did lie to the police or the District Attorney, then you can be charged with perjury, which is a felony, also serious crime.
I would suggest that you run, not walk, away from your so called boyfriend. He sound unstable and dangerous. If he did any of these things to you, the next time, and there will be a next time, know matter, what he tells you, it is quite conceivable, you won't be lucky enough, to be around, to press charges. Make as much space between yourself and this guy as is physically possible. You should speak to a professional expert, who can explain to you what Domestic Violence is all about, and the repercussions to your life, that such an unhealthy relationship can ultimately have.

2006-06-29 16:52:52 · answer #2 · answered by Kipper 7 · 1 0

Depending on the state and the evidence you might be out of luck because it is the state against your boyfriend not you. That is the law in most states.
Now if you go and recant you can be charged. This is not a game it is serious and costly. Your boyfriend sounds like one piece of work. Move on or you just might end up DEAD.

2006-06-29 16:53:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Please think about whether or not he actually committed the crimes above and if the city would be safer with him in jail... Set aside your emotions... If you refuse to testify, and the prosecutor has no evidence... the case will be dropped.... How will you incriminate yourself? Did you lie to the police? Did you do something illegal? Perjury is different than self-incrimination....

2006-06-29 16:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by kahtifah 3 · 0 0

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2015-09-24 16:42:03 · answer #5 · answered by Rosa 1 · 0 0

as serious as the offenses are, you need to get some help as to many women are victims and its blind love they call it or afraid to be on their own. once you have the charges, many victims of domestic violence drop the charges. but in this case, many da offices and judges can go ahead with the case if the crimes are serious even though you don't want to prosecute anymore. they can. they won't think you lied as its common for the victims to change their minds, but when its serious crimes, then they go ahead with the case.

2006-06-29 16:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by hollywood71@verizon.net 5 · 0 0

Refuse to co-operate with the prosecutor. Don't sign anything and don't testify. They'll try to trick you into it with idle threats but stand up for your rights. They can't MAKE you.

Believe me they'll lie cheat and steal to get you to do what they want you to do. That's how they got their overpayin' government jobs in the first place. Remember ALL lawyers are professional liars.

2006-06-29 16:48:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

He had an anger project. nonetheless does. He ought to nonetheless ought to pay for what he did. that's frightening to have somebody attack you and no person merits that. you're thinking of him and not the only he attacked. Are you feeling sorry for THAT guy or woman too? Are you in contact approximately how THAT guy or woman will react in courtroom? i think of that guy or woman desires to do lots to rehabilitate himself.....offering to circulate to anger administration...do counseling and be honest whilst he's in courtroom. law enforcement officers enable him have a telephone and so on via fact they did no longer see a threat..that would not propose he isn't one. He needless to say IS ONE to somebody! do no longer decrease what he did and don't enable him to decrease it the two. i'm severe...he did something out of line and it is not proper if he never had a checklist....all and sundry starts off someplace. If he is going in to courtroom and says....I never replaced into in worry till now..the law enforcement officers did no longer think of i replaced into any project....the remorseful approximately isn't there. it is not something you could pretend the two. Judges can tell once you're honest. you in basic terms understand one edge of the story....you desire the two. it is not for you in figuring out this...and with a bit of luck if he's a reliable guy or woman who basically made a mistake he will do something to instruct he isn't going on that highway back and get some counseling to choose WHY HE REACTED AS HE DID so he has advice on a thank you to handle anger. Beating somebody up isn't a sprint element...and you're making it out like he's the sufferer. he isn't...he's the only they arrested. yet in California..they're so liberal they could to boot turn all and sundry unfastened as they're all liberal and picture no person has any blame. no you pays for something there.....and that's a shame. I emailed you back with advice you're able to be able to desire to be sure. i replaced into with the Battered women's preserve for 8 years and there is help accessible for you. touch them and sufferer's tips.... I despatched some urls so which you could be sure on the cycle of abuse too...PLEASE examine THEM...that's needed you realize this. ok? reliable luck.

2016-10-31 23:18:52 · answer #8 · answered by derival 4 · 0 0

Did he do these things to you? If so he will do it agian. Next time maybe you wont be around to sign a statment.

2006-06-29 16:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by wrokgoddess 3 · 0 0

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