2006-06-29 16:39:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
To fix it you have to want to fix it. If you have fallen out of love, then it's over. To fix it, you need to be honest with him and discuss your feelings. If need be, if you want the marriage to survive, get professional help.
I'm a health nut and after my wife had my son, she put on a lot of weight and didn't get it off. After a year, we talked. I told her I loved her but I was having trouble dealing with her weight thing. It took another year, but we both worked together to bring her weight back down to normal. What we did may not work for everybody, but the main thing is that we talked. Good luck.
TX Guy.
2006-06-29 17:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do some self-reflection and find out why you're not attracted to him anymore. Is it physical, emotional? Are you infatuated with someone/something else? Is it financial? You need to pinpoint what the issue is. Then you must decide who needs to do the changing (or did one of you already change and that's the problem?) Are you just looking for a way out? 6 years is still a honeymoon period. Above all, be honest. If you aren't honest, you'll only be hurting yourself (shaking the finger and saying tsk tsk).
2006-06-29 16:46:18 · answer #2 · answered by thislifeisnotforme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
work on your marriage make it work again
good marriage is an intimate and loving relationship which gives both partners security, friendship, companionship, support, comfort, and deep love that penetrates every aspect of life. None of this can be achieved without work and sacrifice.
Marriage may be compared to a plant that requires daily nurture, daily attention, daily care and cultivation. It will not develop of its own accord; only as effort and will are exerted will it grow and mature. For a marriage to succeed, both husband and wife must be committed to its success. They must build an enduring love relationship that is centered in the heart of their consciousness. Their relationship must be nurtured with the water of loyalty and love.
2006-06-29 17:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats something u and him are going to have to talk about, the world is so crazy, we have no time for each other anymore, its moving to fast, and when we dont have the time we need to spend with our mates, things like this will happen, good luck , theres not much of a fix when u fall out of love
2006-06-29 16:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to get down to what the real issue is that is bothering you. IN most of these situations, you have a deep seeded problem that if you talked it out, things will be fine. If you dont think thats it, then tell him and allow him to find someone that is attracted to him and you find someone you are attracted to.
2006-06-29 16:47:55 · answer #5 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best solution , to be upfront and tell him your feelings , would you respect him if he did the same to you ?
2006-06-29 16:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by 2108Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it too repetitive? do you feel like the excitement is gone? are you bored? Do you feel like its a chore?
2006-06-29 17:11:37 · answer #7 · answered by jonl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋