i am getting married in august and we think this is best i already have a 3 yr old and he has a child i was married wih my first now divorced april 17,2006 so we agree once we get married we will keep the next one the abortion is at 9am
2006-06-29 16:14:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Teaching
Wait, let me answer for the child!!! Please don't KILL me :(
2006-06-29 16:20:00 · answer #1 · answered by gentlemanfarmer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you have a three year old with your first husband whom you divorced 2 months ago but are currently carrying another child from your first husband? You are apparently uncomfortable about getting an abortion, even if you can "keep the next one." That discomfort should be a clue about which course of action you should take.
2006-06-29 16:40:04 · answer #2 · answered by sallyhamm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask anyone except the father, then you shouldn't be doing it. Personally, I think it is a sin to kill an unborn child just for convenience. As others have said, if you and possibly your new fiance don't want to keep this child, surrender it at birth. There are a lot of people who would love to adopt it.
What about the abortion is best? For whom?
2006-06-29 16:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by wolfmusic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
were is it written that you created the universe, and planned tomorrow. if god had plan for the child to be part of his perfect plan. and you by choice stop that plan, then what. and if this child was to find the cure for cancer but you stoped that then what hope is the universe to have if everyone stop's the plan, if a book is missing a page then what, do we use our imagination to figure out what the author was trying to tell us. god is the author and the finisher of a perfect plan . he obiously found perfection in you to bring forth the next page. so why destroy the book of a perfect story . the greatest story ever written. if you were diagnosed with cancer and somone else made that desition your about to make twentie years ago. then what. if that child was the key to cancer how offle to imagine the choice of one person selfishnes to gods creation could matter. that much that to think you could have had the cure to your cancer but someone made the desition for your future in a blink of an eye. how offow that would be. to imagine you could have lived just that much more. . the point is the life you save could be your own. help god finish the book he started. if someone doesn't except you and your children then maybe just maybe their not worth you pretious love. sincerely yours trueagape from above
2006-07-02 02:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by trueagape from above. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abortion is something that only you can decide whether it is good or bad. This decision is based on your religion or beliefs, how you were raised and your personal feelings. Personally I feel that abortion is ok in certain circumstances however I do not believe that your situation is one of those circumstances. Aborting because of an "oops" is not a good reason. Abortion should never be used as birth control.
2006-06-29 16:21:10 · answer #5 · answered by LDYDRGN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to ur heart,many answerers can give you different opinions. But it finally lands up unto u. Personally i think the abortion is totally uncalled for. You are responsible over the life of the infant and only the 2(u n ur husband) of you can decide for the best. Wish u all the best. Make a smart move. God bless ur family and ur 'other life'.
2006-06-29 16:29:48 · answer #6 · answered by KaNie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not against abortion, i just feel you need to take some responsibility in your actions. you seem to have a great relationship ahead of you and if that love is truly strong, it can handle this unborn child. yet, if you cannot truly give this child a good home life and provide for it properly, you should think diffrently, i think in the end, your first child will ask questions you may not be able to answer, maybe not now, but in the future....
2006-06-29 16:21:33 · answer #7 · answered by mortisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abortion isn't bad, if it's done in the first trimester.
Others, who believe life begins when the 2 cells are joined will disagree...
Only you and your fiance can decided what is BEST for you and YOUR family.
Good luck
2006-06-29 16:19:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is like any other moral dilema, we make choices we have to live with, do what you feel is right for you and your family, and pray that you are doing the right thing. I hope everything works out for you, and if you change your mind for the unborn child as well.
2006-06-29 16:20:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you think is right. Do not let ANYONE make your mind up for you. If you listen to your own heart the way will show itself.
BTW...abortion is only wrong if you are forced into it.
2006-06-29 16:23:19 · answer #10 · answered by lockesmith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about ADOPTION????????????
Have the baby! Go to an emergency room and surrender the child! There are NO QUESTIONS ASKED!!! There are people who WANT BABIES!!!!!!!! Who CAN'T have them, and you just want to throw away a human life? One who is wanted by SOMEONE???
E.R.s take babies all of the time, with NO questions asked, you'll NEVER be contacted!!!!!!
Why take the life of someone because the timing isn't right for you????
2006-06-29 16:23:13 · answer #11 · answered by ktterdfurguson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋