Do u find it hard to trust people again after been hurt before?

Question

This is what situation i am in for a few years already. I used to trust people a lot, especially those close with and i treasure a lot. But after been hurt, i found it hard to regain the trust anymore and i become suspicious.. What can i do? Do u have similar experience and how u solve?

Answer 1

You're not alone.
I absolutely understand what you're saying as I'm going through it myself... =( I used to be naive & gullible only to have it blow up in my face.
I tried changing to adapt as to how people would like me to be... but it wasn't easy & a losing battle at the end.
For every person you try to please there's gonna be tons more that don't like you for the same reason. After a while it got tired & I stopped, stayed true to myself & adopt a like me/ hate me attitude. To me it's their loss rather than mine.

Answer 2

i totally understand what ure saying. after getting hurt something inside of u snaps and suddenely ure suspicious of everyone even the ones u trust. from my experience the ones that have hurt me the most were the ones i trusted. i think the reason is beacuse they may not tell u somethings than when u find out u get moe hurt becasue the one u trust didnt have the courage to tell u the truth. get what i am saying?

Answer 3

Yes, I have been hurt by my best friend and those I treasured. I have forgive them but I dun trust them any more. I keep every thing to myself.

Sometimes I just listen to some light music to reduce the stress that may have built up. At times I just go to the seaside to enjoy the breeze.

I dun really have any good solution to resolve it coz I really dun know who can b trusted and who can't be, especially those who are close to you and those you really treasure .

Answer 4

Yes i do and i think everybody will have same react if they have been hurt. It is not easy to built our confidence and trust after it has been damaged.
Its okay if you become suspicious it is necessary enough specially in person who is untrusted but do not show it up and over suspicious just keep in you inside, only you know it.
If you show it up your friends will be inconvenience to make a friendship with you.

Good Luck

Answer 5

It relies upon on what brought concerning the damage. If it became a much better 0.5 who stay with then you your options are to allow that individual comprehend that you gained't stand for this back and they must be good, problem to three extra questioning, open and trustworthy contained in the destiny and be conscious how that is going, if you're keen to allow the courting to proceed. maximum persons do no longer change into trustworthy no matter if that is their existence habit now to not be. relies upon on the age and adulthood of the man also. good success.

Answer 6

i understand how you feel. it just that you just dont want to get hurt again. its ok to have such feeling. you will need a long time (and i mean really long) to get over this. the person needs to do a lot of really win the trust again.

its perfectly normal, so dont worry too much.

Answer 7

Yes, ive had plenty of experience in three ways !!! Parental, Media, and someone I love.
Its so hard to let that guard down" But intime it will slip from time to time.

Answer 8

I will never trust a human again. I gave my 100%..

Answer 9

it is good not to trust anyone completely as no one is completely trustworthy. but that does not mean we should be suspicious of everything anyone do.

Answer 10

I have never been able to let that guard down. It is very hard to do.