Please help me!!!?

Question

My ex boyfriend juest asked out my best friend. And she said YES. I am the one who dumped him but I dont want her dating him. I still kinda like him. What do I do what do I do. The person with the best advise I will give 5 points 2 help me. I need all the help I can get. Oh yah did I happen to mention I am going out with my new boy-friend with them to the same resterount?? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

Answer 1

take the old boyfriend to the bathroom and have a romp in one of the stalls...then, take the new borfriend out to the car for another quick romp...then you'll be able to think straight to figure out what to do!!!

Answer 2

Wow ...

Number 1 -- If you still have feelings for someone else, then you don't need to be dating a "new boyfriend" already. Are you crazy, girl??? It will never work out until you get over the other guy.

Number 2 -- If this girl really is your "best friend", just explain to her that you still have feelings for your ex and the whole idea makes you really uncomfortable. If she's really your friend, she'll understand and respect your wishes. If she doesn't, she's not worth your time.

Answer 3

Well if you still like him then... why did you dump him?? OK, maybe you have your reasons, and maybe they are really good reasons, but the other question is... why don't you want you best friend to go out with him? is it because you don't want her to get hurt? or because you'll feel jealous since you kinda like him still? If it is because you want your friend to get hurt then just tell her! she might think you are a stuck up b*t*h who's only thinking on yourself, but she'll understand at one point or the other. But if it is because you'll get jealous then let me tell you something.. you are being selfish! you dumped him remember?? but let me tell you something, a friend wouldn't have said yes to her best friend's ex... unless... unless you told her it was OK. Just let her know how you feel! you are friends, be open with each other, tell her you still kinda like him and that you don't like the idea of her going out with him, not now, ask her for some time. She'll understand.

Answer 4

Is the guy worth possibly losing your best friend over?

There is an unwritten rule that friends don't date friends' exes. However, perhaps she feels that you are over him, since you have moved on to a new guy (and you dumped him). Sometimes the heart just wants what it wants, and she can't help it. Maybe you should talk to her about your feelings, and find out what her feelings are. Maybe she's just in it for fun, and didn't think it would hurt you. Maybe you'll find out that she's fallen hard for him. Either way, I hope it works out for the best for you! Good luck!

Answer 5

first off why are you going out with them if you are so unhappy about this? Maybe u should tell your friend u arent comfortable with her dating this guy if she dont dump him then maybe u need a new best friend. Personally I say let them go for it . Its hard finding the right someone and if they can make a go of it why would you want to stand in their way? Unless u know something about dude like he beats woman or smacks his mama around then u should tell her

Answer 6

I wouldn't double date cause that just wierd for everyone. If you dated him for awhile and she hooked up with him then that's just wrong and you should rethink your friendship with her. Guys come and go, but girlfriends should be there and there should be a certain amount or loyalty and respect depending on how close you and her were. She sure doesn't seem to be saying much if you ask me. The ex...well he's a guy and they change thier minds. You just gotta wonder...how long has this been going on?

Answer 7

hey well that is not a good friend you have there but you did dump him and she thinks your over him so the best thing to do is act like your over him cause it will cause corruption anyways on the other hand you can always talk to ex and see if he still wants you to then work it and thry and hook your current boyfriend up with your ex boyfriend girl which is your best friend that's al from MAMA C

Answer 8

1) Don't double date
2) If you dumped him, you shouldn't hold it against her for saying yes, he probably asked her in the first place, to stir up those jealous feelings, you evidently left him for some good reason.
3) If you do go with them, act calmly, not jealous, made comments that they are a "cute" couple, (meaning like they should have been together all along)-that will send a guy running quick!

Answer 9

First, if she's your best friend, did she ask you first before accepting to go out with him? If not she isn't your best friend. Why did you dump him? If he cheated well reconsider. If you want him back, tell him. Then tell your friend you don't appreciate her dating your ex that's an unwritten rule you don't break. Don't go to a restaurant with them. Go out with your new boyfriends by yourself. A lot of options, think it through.

Answer 10

The one thing that I can say is, there is a code. I would NEVER date your ex if you were my best friend! EVER! Doesn't matter who dumped who, you just don't do it!!! Unless you want to lose your best friend!
DO NOT go to the same RESTAURANT as them unless you WANT conflict!
He is your ex, you have someone new, let your EX go, and don't let your NEW b/f have any reason to be insecure!
MOVE ON!
And find a new best friend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 11

I'm sorry for your heartache. But just because you don't want him anymore, doesn't mean you get to control who goes out with him.

I do think this is just a control issue...but it's still sad.

On the other hand...it's your best friend! She could be more sympathetic to your feelings, and since she's not...how good of a friend is she anyway. And lastly, if he asked out your best friend...he's just being mean and trying to hurt you.