please dont hurt my feelings
2006-06-29 16:06:54 · 24 answers · asked by monkeybaeza 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
girl fat whatever you know what fat stands for fine and thick so you go talk to him be yourself don't act insecure be proud to be you and then you can e-mail me and tell me did you get him!!
(GOOD LUCK)
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Fine and thick not FAT
2006-06-29 16:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, if your weight is unhealthy, you should fix the problem. I am not saying this to be mean, I'm saying it to be helpful. If you are truly overweight, your quality of life will be less overall, not just in the dating area.
Second, if you just carry a few extra pounds, but you're not unhealthy, find a guy who likes a WOMAN and not a skinny girl. There are plenty of men out there who like a curvy woman.
Third, seek out some help from your friends and family to improve your self esteem. When you feel good about yourself, guys will notice, even if you do carry some extra pounds. Try it out. Walk around with your head up, with an attitude like you're all that. See what happens.
2006-06-29 16:33:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the movie, "Babycakes?" the one with Craig Sheffer & Ricki Lake? It was Ricki Lake an obese girl who had a crush on Craig Sheffer's character & they did end up together.
Anyway, the point being... try to approach the guy, make small talk based on current events like movies/ music, etc. I've come across obese women who were rather attractive but even more so because they didn't let their weight hold them back, they were vivacious & fun to be with.
Most importantly just be yourself & if he's still not into you then maybe he's not worth it. You'll never know if you don't give it a try.
Best of Luck to you.
2006-06-29 16:19:20 · answer #3 · answered by ViRg() 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read what you just asked. You're self conscious about your weight so my suggestion is for you to re-focus your goals from guys to yourself. Take an active interest and commit tent to do whatever is necessary for you to look and feel better about yourself. If you do this first and take it as serious as you want to have a boyfriend then the results will make it a lot easier to solve the boyfriend issue. You won't have to be asking then how to get them to notice you and you're only dilemma will be which one to say yes too when they all start asking you out.
2006-06-29 16:13:16 · answer #4 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not trying to hurt you sweet but if he does not accept you the way you are he most likely is not the one for you in the first place and he would be the one to hurt you and break your little heart.and as for as the fat well if you can and i know people can not try to loss some of it and if you can you will feel better and have a lot more energy too love bluehawk
2006-06-29 16:12:50 · answer #5 · answered by jlr2713 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to work on your self esteem before doing anything.have you ever heard the phrase, how can someone love you if you don't love yourself/???This applies here.Just because your overweight....means NOTHING!!!!!!You need to be proud of yourself and how you look.There are sooooo many good looking men out there (I'm married to one of them)who look at the inner person and some guys who love overweight women(I am a plus size and proud of it).IF you aren't happy with your weight, exercise and watch what you eat.But in the meantime, love yourself.I am sure your a beautiful woman and person.God doesn't make ugly people.Good luck and go get him.If he turns you down, than he is not the kind of guy you want anyways.Do you want to be with someone who is superficial??No way.Life is tooooo short.Believe me.
2006-06-29 16:15:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you, he should like you for your personality.
Just becuase you call yourself fat (who knows if you even are) doesn't mean he won't pay attention to you. If hes a jerk, than he probobly won't pay attention to you unless he likes your personality, if he isn't a jerk, and he likes your personality, he'll talk to you.
Good luck, and remember, don't let ANY guy tell you you aren't pretty enough. Thats a load of bull ****.
2006-06-29 16:10:52 · answer #7 · answered by ♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are NOT fat
don't be so hung up on HIM
build some self esteem
though most won't admit it, a brassy girl is sexy (not bitchy, brassy)
Begin to like yourself, men do like that
if you have bad self esteem, men will use it against you
you probably knew that
its not a short answer,
a short answer would be 'bake him something and then ask if he has any golf/fishing stories. listen even though you are totally bored'
2006-06-29 16:13:15 · answer #8 · answered by mike c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are fat...but I don't know you. Many young girls consider themselves "fat" when in fact the only fat they have is in their big toe. Anyhow, use your personality. Do you have a sense of humor? Us it.
2006-06-29 16:09:50 · answer #9 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just have a great personality to offer, cuz in the long run when looks are faded and its the end of the day, thats all that matters.
2006-06-29 16:11:12 · answer #10 · answered by tlcin2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess what? If you are bigger than him and he doesn't notice you, then forget him, he's shallow. If however, you can get him to notice you, get to know him and let him in on the great heart you have.
2006-06-29 16:10:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋