If we can always give love and not look for a payback. or do you agree that we must strick a deal
2006-06-29 15:45:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i dont think we must strike a deal but if you give out love you should expect something in return even if its not from the person you love
2006-06-30 11:17:45 · answer #1 · answered by timore_nessun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the answers you have so far are right in one way or another. The more you give Love, the more you experience it. There is such a thing as giving too much of yourself too soon...for you become like an empty vessel and then you have to go back to replenish it. Love is inside you and you can tap into it any time you want. It is made even more beautiful when it is shared. You deserve more than an "one-way street" experience, though.
Love isn't negotiable...you either do or you don't. You can only be responsible for how you feel and not the other person. A lot of people make that mistake. Click on my name if you want to see what else I have to say about Love. You'll find my answers in the answer section of my profile. Just look for the key word "Love" in the questions. Good Luck to you.
2006-07-13 06:12:24 · answer #2 · answered by riverhawthorne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, more and more people have forgotten what love is, and are looking for a deal in every relationship. But, there are still those who believe in love. When you love someone, you just love him or her, right?Why would you want a deal if you already feel what you feel?If you receive love in return, that is the best deal you could ever want!
2006-07-13 11:38:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jelena B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love becomes an issue if the its a oneway affair... if you love and never expect any in return then you are a martyr and most of the martyrs lies six feet below the ground.... imposing rules will make it dictated love.. well you just have to stick on the very basic meaning of love it's a give and take affair... a frienship beyond expectation... true to each others feeling...
2006-07-13 03:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by rudolph d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real love involves a reciprocal sharing of admiration, affection, validation, honor, & respect. Instead of looking for a payback it concerns itself with co-operation. There are even times when love involves one to sacrifice ones own wants for the good of the one you love.
Be good to yourself & don't let someone treat you bad. When you find someone who is truly loving, it will be returned to you in full, & you will know you are loved by the way they treat you. No deal required.
2006-07-12 17:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by ANGEL 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, how stupid is that? You thing that someone owes you something because you show love. Love is something you give at will, not upon a deal you make with somebody. Expecting something in return is arrogant, childish and untrue. Obviously you do not care for them as you think you do if you think they should feel obligated. What planet are you from?
2006-07-07 17:34:44 · answer #6 · answered by cute_smartass05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all want to feel love. Here's the beauty of love: you feel it when you are receiving it, and you feel it when you are giving it! So, if you are giving love, you are also getting the benefit of it! Wow! Having said that, don't confuse giving love with letting yourself be a doormat. If you continually do things for another person and get nothing in return, move on.
2006-07-08 20:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by packergal1966 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love,Love, Love... ... The more u give the more u get.I can't think of any deals.If some one dont reciprocate, it is thier problem.I think this is the only way.By hoping for a payback u will only get disappointed many a times.so...give give give...
2006-07-12 19:54:02 · answer #8 · answered by SR BODA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats what you may think but boyz don't do crap they sitttttt sitttt & did i telll you sitttttt and be watching a striper wihle the lada take care of there kids the lada finds out what the man was doing andn a big cumoshin start
2006-07-13 11:29:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are expecting something in return - then that is not Love. It is selfish "me me me" love at best.
If for some twist of faith, the object of your affection gives without expecting. and you give without expecting. and there is no tally sheet between you. THEN THAT'S LOVE. Love on!
2006-07-10 15:23:30 · answer #10 · answered by elymendoza1984 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋