question for everyone?

Question

Ok we are seeing alot of questions on why is he/she cheating, But how about what would your b/f,g/f, husband or wife do to keep you from straying ?

Answer 1

It's not about what you should be doing to keep your husband or wife from straying. You can do everything and there is still a possibility of straying. In most relationship you are doing the right thing and there is still cheating. I personally think that it is about morals and respect. My husband and I have been through alot and the relationship isn't what it was in the beginning but I wouldn't never cheat on him. I took my vows and that's what should be honored. Relationships change and so do people but if your not ready to honor your vows then there shouldn't be commitment. The thing to remember is "You cant keep a man or a woman that doesn't want to be kept no matter what you do." I really don't think that someone cheats on you because your not doing something right.

Answer 2

The sad truth is regarding everyone is that you can not stop your partner from cheating, regardless of the fact you have a brilliant relationship full of love and trust or a dead one. You can try and prevent it by keeping the relationship as maintained as you can, however, its your partners mind that does the wondering and you cant climb in there to stop it. At the end of the day, you have to bring it to your partners subconscience and if he is going to cheat then he will hurt with remorse and regret for the long run, whilst you will hurt at the principals and then get over it. Realising he is not worth what you got yourself into.

Answer 3

Good question. The problem is that most of the people who are asking about how cheating, their relationships have already hit that low point.

I think people forget when they get married that the same way you got her to marry you should still be part of the marriage afterward.

Alot of people with troubled marriages have let their marriages hit that danger point. They are so lost in their own needs that the forget to keep the passion in the marriage.

Answer 4

Most men can be easily tempted by a woman who comes on to them. A woman can reduce the changes of her husband or boyfriend straying if he keeps him sexually satisfied while letting him know she appreciates him as a man and supports him in his struggles against this hard world. If he happens to encounter another woman who does both better, he's likely to be gone.

Answer 5

The answer is different for everybody. For instance, a man might leave if his g/f doesn't turn him on, but not dump her because he likes the way she cooks. That's a pretty lame guy, having his cake and eating her sister too, but it happens.
Also, the guy might just not be happy with only one girl. After all, it's society who dictates that to be immoral, but nature dictates otherwise. Back in the caveman days, the woman would find one guy to conceive the child, and another few guys to help raise the child. Unheard of in today's society, but nature hasn't necessarily evolved us the same way society wants. So to answer your question, how do you stop them from cheating, you have to get inside their head and find out what you have that will make them content. If they are week in their resistance to desire, then you have to find a way to make them think of YOU when they are veering off to the left.

Answer 6

For a husband to go home after a long hours of working, should go home to a peaceful and quite house. Meaning, a happy wife waiting ready the foods to feed the family, clean and orderly, tho not all of this is a must to be present for a husband to stay home. To be simple, there should be an air of happiness, for all of the members to stay and long for your home because of happiness that they feel.

Answer 7

nice question...to keep the fire burning,you have to do little surprises sometimes.like, giving him/her a present even if there's no special occasion or drop a note on the bed w/ a message that says "I love you" or "I miss u. Can't wait to see you later"...every single thing you do, counts. you both should give and take w/ each other. You both need to spend time together sometimes to fill in the missing parts...

Answer 8

Do what my wife did before we got married;

She told me, with NO uncertanity, if I have an affair, the marriage is OVER, finished. Ended. No talking, no therapy. Just get OUT!

And after 32 years, I believe her!!

Answer 9

Respect me. Love me. Be nice in simple ways.
Men are not complicated.
Mainly, we want to be respected and treated with respect.
You should not have to struggle to keep us from cheating.
But, we always look and joke
It does not mean that we will cheat.

Answer 10

Communication, respect and honesty. Marriage comes down to those three things. If you have them then you or your spouse can stay true to your vows with ease. Remember you cannot have one without the other.