I have been with this man for 12 yrs and I have a kid already but I want another.My kid is 17 yrs old and I have been trying for some yrs now. and nothing is happening. He has kids too. I went to the doctor and he said that I'll never have another cause of fibrols.I pray to God alot for another baby. I mean I just want 1 child. Can people out there pray for me to have a baby please.
2006-06-29 15:41:09 · 13 answers · asked by Maria 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
ok so i totally know what you are going through and how hard it is but at the same time you should be blessed to have the child you have because i have fallen pregnant once before but it failed and i lost my baby. now to make things worse i want a baby more than ever because my clock is ticking and i'll be 23 saturday. my best friend has 2 kids and now another good friend of mine had her third baby last friday therefore depressing me because according to the doctor i cant have kids due to a lazy ovary they think but they dont care enough to do tests to find out if i can or cant for sure. i am trying everything i can think of and afford but its not working and yes i pray to god every night but still nothing. i cry myself to sleep sometimes but i really cant do anything about it. so yes i will pray for you as well as the rest of us as well.
good luck and again be thankful to have the child you have.
2006-06-29 17:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
17 years between kids a lot of time.
You could have the fibroids removed but it's a very risky proceedure.
You could adopt a baby that is here and really needs a family or...you could have an operation...or you can count your blessings and know that there are people out there who can't have any. At least you have one.
If it's meant to be, it will happen. If not, then know that there is a reason and you'll know that reason sooner than you think. That's just how life works.
2006-06-29 22:47:14 · answer #2 · answered by lilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there are ovualtion kits you can try im doing them now and they are great !!! you buy them at the drug store or any shop that sells pregnancy stuff... you buy an ovulation kit for 5 days it comes with 5 peeing cups and 5 tests you do one test a day for 5 days at the same time every day.... it sort of looks like a pregnancy test but for ovualtion.... it comes up positive when you are at your highest and that means you are going to ovulate in 24 - 36 hours so you have sex on the day you get a positive and the day after....its worked for alot of women thats just an easier thing to try so that when you know you are most fertile you can plan a romantic evening and just enjoy the night instead of worrying the WHOLE month about making sure that you and your husband had sex on certain days so goodluck and for the future CONGRATS
2006-06-30 00:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by bellitarose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are various factors that underlie the real cause of uterine fibroids. There are primary causes that contribute to the development of the fibroids in the uterus, and then there are secondary causes that contribute to the aggravation of these present fibroids. There might even be external factors like, emotional upheavals, which disrupt the normal balance of the body and make you vulnerable to such diseases.
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Cheers.
2014-09-02 14:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you wait so long to have another child? Fertility begins to decline at age 27 or so.
IVF might be the answer for you. Good luck!
2006-06-29 22:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by realmomof4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just may not be in God's plan for you to have another child. When you pray, make sure you listen for God's answer.
2006-06-29 23:14:05 · answer #6 · answered by Dree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that you are having such a difficult time. I would highly recommend the website www.twoweekwait.com, as they have a large community of people that can offer you their advice and support.
Your family is in my prayers! I hope everything works out for you!
2006-06-29 22:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by la_la_la 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIBROIDS ARE HORRIBLE. SAME THING HAPPENING TO ME.
THANK GOD I HAD 3 KIDS ALREADY, BUT WOULD LIKE ANOTHER. DR SAID IT WOULD BE DISASTEROUS, AND STRONGLY ADVISED ME NOT TO GET PREGNANT. GOOD LUCK TO YOU, BUT FIND OUT HOW MANY FIBROIDS YOU HAVE, WHAT TYPE THEY ARE AND WHERE. IMPLANTNG OF THE EGG IS DIFFICULT WITH FIBROIDS IN THE WAY AND IT MAY NOT BE GOOD IF IT DOES IMPLANT AS FIBROIDS WILL GROW AS BABY GROWS!!! DON'T RISK KILLING YOURSELF OR HAVING TO GET AN ABORTION AND THEN HYSTERECTOMY!!!!
2006-07-06 16:50:47 · answer #8 · answered by keepitsimple321 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you don't farm him out to babysitters all the time and take full responsibility for his care. Children are big responsibility and just because people have them doesn't mean they're good parents.
2006-06-29 23:04:11 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are trying to hard. it took my cousin and his wife seven years for their first baby. i suggest stop trying so hard to have a baby and it might happen, if you cant wait try IVF
2006-06-29 22:51:14 · answer #10 · answered by rae200384 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋